Do women desire men the same way men desire women ? (long question)

[joeteen]

I'm gonna talk about us (guys) for a while then I'm gonna ask you all some questions based on what I've said and beware Because this is gonna be...graphic..for the sake of the question,lol.And if any of my words sound generalizing,stereotyping or offensive then I don't mean to.Here we go: We (guys) love women's bodies.When we're in bed with beautiful women,we love to caress/kiss their face,breasts,bottoms..their entire body really.We like to "play" with some parts,suck on some parts or simply lick them face to toe ! .My point is : We enjoy doing that,we need it,we don't just do it to please our partner,it gives us a great amount of pleasure ourselves,the female body is amazing to us,we crave it .A woman can tease a guy with her body till he feels like a monster waiting to be unleashed at her cue.Another thing,we (guys) get off on watching a woman orgasm,hearing her moan and scream.And again,women can actually use this to tease us saying stuff like "wanna make me cum,hear me moan..ect" and again we're like monsters waiting for the cue to send her to orgasm town like our lives depended on it.You see,what's amazing about women is that they can let you be a monster on them but they're still dominating you : with their minds and umm "womanly spell" . It's like they can demand to be dominated and/or pleased and they're still the ones in-charge during the sex saying stuff like "f* me harder"..etc.They can also use the pleading approach and "beg" for it saying "f* me harder" pleadingly,and it works,lol! Now If we want to reverse all of the above,I get the following questions in mind (don't read the questions unless you've read what's above so you can understand my point) : 1.Do women crave men's bodies as men crave theirs ? If so,what body parts do they like to kiss,caress,lick or play with ? 2.Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his "manly spell" till she can't resist jumpin all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as "manly spell" in that context ? If so,how is it done in a non gay way ? lol 3.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how? 4.Can a guy "beg" a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ? 5.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how? 6.Does this sound gay to you all ? lol. Ok,don't answer this one. All of this makes me wonder on the dynamics of attraction between men and women and how they desire each other differently..or not so differently? What do you think ? P.s : I'm not talking about relationships,dating.personalities,communication,bdsm.I'm talking about pure sex,initiation approaches,seduction techniques,dirty talk,moves,teasing..etc..I'm also aware that men can tease and dominate/be dominated by women in other ways but let's focus on the aspects I've introduced here,thx.Thx for reading :)

[udolipixie]

Do women desire men the same way men desire women?

Most likely not as in my opinion gals are more likely to desire guys as sexual beings who they want to please while guys desire gals as sexual objects akin to holes to serve his needs and ego.

1. Do women crave men's bodies as men crave theirs? If so,what body parts do they like to kiss,caress,lick or play with ?

Probably not as gals generally have a lower sexual drive, studies show gals don't think about sex as much as guys, and gals often don't get as much pleasure from sex as guys.

2. Can a guy actually tease a woman with his body and use his "manly spell" till she can't resist jumpin all over him kissing/sucking him everywhere? Is there such a thing as "manly spell" in that context ? If so,how is it done in a non gay way ? lol

3.Can a guy a tease a woman in a way to make her wanna ride him till he cums like her life depended on it ? If so,how?

Probably if the guy is extremely attractive or using his wealth or status to tease her as many gals are quick to jump a hot, rich, or high status guy.

4. Can a guy "beg" a woman to unleash herself on him? Or will the pleading approach show him to be emasculate and would turn her off instantly ?

Possibly though in my experiences and observations guys begging don't turn on a gal rather turns off a gal.

5.Can a guy demand to be dominated/pleased and still be taking charge?how?

Perhaps by telling her to ride his d*ck and controlling her hip movements.

[tammymac]

1 Hell yes , we do crave our men! I crave his kiss, his touch, his hands, and of course that magic wand too.

2 Yes we an be teased. Anything you want being with held from you will tease you. You have to be sure we want what you are offering first lol

3 yes he can. This will depend on the woman and her pleasure zones, don't be afraid to explore, and don't be afraid to ask how she likes it done.

4 Yes, he can beg, and no it doesn't have to diminish his masculinity one little bit. There are lots of ways to do this that will turn your woman on too, Women like to know they have the ability to drive you insane with wanting them. I think the key would be not to come of sounding pathetic. Pathetic example: please please please won't you let me touch you, have you... whiny voice and all. Good example: Oh baby I've just got to have you, let me feel that beautiful pussy of yours, I need to touch you, I'm begging you, slide that hot little ass of yours over here.

5 Oh sure he can demand. It can be as simple as a position change. Moving from missionary (male dom) to woman on top (female dom) all you need to say is baby get up here and ride me. You have made the command, and she will pleasure you in the way you have instructed. Then you take her by the hips and pull her down on your shaft (after she is firmly seated) and trust up to meet her this give you a measure of control.

6 no, not gay, it sounds like you have put some thought into the question. It's a bit long though.

[Sexydncr]

1. Yes I love guys' bodies... Especially some muscle. I usually pay attention to the "hot spots" (neck, ears, shoulder, chest, and the V area).

2. I know guys who can get ANY girl no matter how sure she wasn't going to have sex with him. And for the non gay way I guess embracing your sexuality and being confident.

3. Maybe orgasm withdrawal... Teasing until she can't stand it.

4. He would have to be tactful "c'mon baby let out that sexual side"

5. Yeah... Guys do it all the time "suck me" "ride me" etc

6. Hahaha no.

[AmberFay]

1. Yes we crave men's bodies why do you think we like the ones that got a little muscle, duh. Well I don't know about other women but mine is mostly ears, neck and shoulders, its a universal hor spot for men you can't go wrong with them. When I know they like it, I nibble their inner thighs as well.

2. Not every guy has it but yes there are some men who can seduce very easily. Again I don't know about other women. Mine personally is when a guy hugs from behind and whispers softly while kissing my neck and shoulders, it sends shivers every time.

3. Uh, that one I have no idea.

4. Yes. If he does it right pleading for it won't make him any less manly.

5. Yes, but in my experience he has to find a girl who can switch being submissive/dominate easily.

6. No lol

This is all just by my experience it can differ from woman to woman.

[Anonymous]

This depends on every woman.