Is he not sexually attracted by me or just being respectful ?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy on a dating website, he saw my Photo and decided to message me. He asked me out, our first date was fun and flirty but he didn't touch me even though I did on his arm... Second date was on the movies and I was the one iniciating the kisses... Third date he was the one grabbing my hand, he rested his hand on my hips but again I was the one controlling the kisses... I wonder if he just isn't that physically attracted to me We are in a distant relationship at the moment cause he is away travelling for work so we only write to one another, I fear that he see me as a friend and not that physical into me as I am into him :(

[Anonymous]

Well I've been in this type of situation before and was let down big time. I found that the guy whos not making the moves is just not that into you. The guy that did this too be couldn't even touch me he just wanted a friend and someone to hang out with, not to date me. But he could just be very shy who knows. If I were you knowing that I've been through this before I would go out with him a couple more times but wait and see if he makes the moves and don't make any moves on him. If he does not then ide just forget about him and not go out with him anymore.

[Asker]

I really like him though...it seems he likes me a lot too, he says he only have eyes for me, that he misses me, that can't wait to see me, I was the one to end all our dates... I do feel he is shy though and in our 3rd date he Was touching me way more...he calls me my beautiful

[Opinion Owner]

Oh sounds like he does like you then because the guy I was with never said these things either guess he's just shy then.

[martyfellow]

He may notwant to get into a physical relationship when you can only see each other occasionally, since he's travelling so much.

That might be his way of being respectful toward you, and not leading you on like a lot of guys would do.

I greatly doubt it's because he's not attracted to you. but remember, he probably is talking and meeting up with a lot of girls from that website, not just you! He may not want to come across as a player with all of those girls!

[Asker]

He made it clear he only have eyes for me and made many plans for when he gets back including meeting his family...he always says he misses me or how he can't wait to see me again

[Anonymous]

Okay... he may be embarrassed because he may not know how to french o.o? Or thinks he's bad...

It took me FOREVER to kiss my last ex/first Girlfriend becase I didn't know exactly what to do... Like... I was scared/embarrassed I'd like bite her, or our teeth would bump or something

[Asker]

He seems inexperience in kissing but So am I and I did it anyway

[bDizzie]

He's too shy to make a move.