He licked my Butt hole?!? What do you think of salad tossing in general??

[Anonymous]

So I just started dating this guy.. he's really sweet and cute.. He's shown interest in me for a long time.. He's pretty clean cut and slightly conservative... Last night we went on a date to a fun bar (It had games we could play against each other etc.) for an event they were having... After we still wanted to hang out but low key and we were near my place so I invited him to come to my apartment to watch a movie and play with my dog.. We started to make out... and he ended up pulling my pants off and going down on me... then he turned me around.. and started to go down on my butt while fingering me... and he did this for a while... I was so thrown off.. Is this a normal thing that people do now? After, I was giggling and asked him if he has a butt tush fetish.. He was like no, he herd that women like that and laughed and said that maybe he's been watching to much p*rn.. asked me if I liked it... I told him that I liked the confidence of the act.. but was def not expecting him to do that.. and then he told me that he's actually never done that before... What do you guys think of this? Do people like this? I've never really given it much thought.. Am I supposed to do it back when I feel ready to? I feel like a man's butt is hairy and I don't know does he want it back?

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't call it normal but it seems to be the in thing right now. he might have just been really turned on by you and thought your ass was perfection...

a girl doesn't have to do it back and your feeling about man ass is probably accurate most of the time. I don't want a girl to do that to me

ive thought about doing it and have 4 conclusions

1) when I'm really horny and with a girl that has a gorgeous ass it seems like it would be wonderful.

2) when I'm not horny and with a girl that has a perfect ass it seems meh.

3) if I'm horny and with a normal even good looking girl it is just meh.

4) if I'm not horny and with a normal-good looking girl it has very little appeal.

[worzt]

I lick my girl all over, and since we enjoy anal a lot and we pretty much only use saliva as lube, spent my time liking her b-hole, I'm a really hairy guy but she loves it, while she enjoys having hers liked (her legs shake ard and her moans are loud even if she, at times is still as nervous as the first time) she has done it to me, it feels good, but I think I do not feel half as amazing as she does, I actually like it best when she liks my lower back, or bites my a-cheeks, maybe you could try that.

[Asker]

lol my friend recently told me (a guy bit her & she had a teeth mark bruise ha) that people are getting into biting/butt cheek biting.. This is the first time I was intimate with this guy.. That's something I figure you might add to things 3months in? IDK.. If a guy licks a girls butt hole does that mean that he likes anal sex to or wants to try it? Do they go hand in hand? I'm not appose to anal, I've tried it a few times w/my ex but I would like to be dating him for a while before we go there..

[worzt]

not necessarily, many reasons to like anal, but perhaps the main one for both girls and boys is the "taboo" or nasty feeling, and at the same time, as you say, that it shows more confidence and trust, maybe more intimate than one expect, but you get that feeling not only from actual anal sex, but from what he did, it has the same kinky feeling, and it may be enough for now, I had left some bruises on my girl, mainly after I said "bite me as hard as you want me too" and she likes it hard :P

[Asker]

so this act also shows that he really likes me? His penis also seems to hate condoms and every time he put one on would go soft within 3 min (happend 3 times)..I was joking about it saying it's OK if your nervous maybe we are moving fast here I usually wait a lot longer for sex I know it's not personal... and he was pretty comfortable about that and was like I don't get why this is happening..maybe it's because I really like you lol...Really passionate kissing so I know this will work itself out

[worzt]

got dislikes when I answer in other post that liking b-hole was not the same as puss, that b-hole was more intimate, and went to say I may agree to oral with a friend with benefits, but lick her b-whole? only with someone important, also I relate to what you say, my Girlfriend is truly important and I never had performance anxiety before, but it happened with her, she was cool with it, still it made it harder, but yes, we found the way :) and we enjoy each other fully and in trust, you enjoy it too

[Anonymous]

I had a guy that loved doing that but he went further. At first I was shocked, and then I kinda enjoyed the idea, then I kind of enjoyed the feeling, but then he kept wanting to do it, A LOT, All the time. It got weird and became a total and complete turn-off. Something was not right about it/him.

[imonfire]

Pretty weird that he went there first.

[Kass1964]

LOL

[Kass1964]

What the hell does salad have to do with anything?

[Asker]

haha salad tossing is a term used for but hole licking.. I didn't make that up lol

[Kass1964]

Lol! That doesn't even make sense.

[Asker]

agreed.. calling it a corn hole doesn't make sense either.. Correlating a but hold to types of food is really strange to me as well

[Kass1964]

Well I'll just never understand people.

[MrOracle]

"Cornhole" is from an old (usually bean bag) game where you throw the object at a hole at the end of a long, wide board. It's rural slang, as this is a game that was played a lot in rural areas during the middle part of the 20th Century.

link

[Kass1964]

thanks...

[Yeppeeee]

Actually. They call it a corn hole because before the days of TP...

[SaltandVinegar]

I think that is so hot

[Anonymous]

It's weird

[Anonymous]

If I'm super attracted to a girl I'll want to lick her all over including her butt sometimes. I think he just got lost in the moment lol. Just because I lick her ass does not mean she has to lick mine, I don't expect it at all.

[Anonymous]

Did he stick his tongue inside your butthole our just around the rim?

[Asker]

thankfully not in.. I made sure my butt was tight in case he tried lol

[KingsOfleon88]

I don't understand why people are like ew...some people like feet, others like ass...meh..I'm down

[Opinion Owner]

Ass in p**** are prety the same thing dude.. if your licking a girls p**** your nose is prob in her ass ya know?

[Asker]

lol I'm clean and took a bath/shower about 1.5 hours before our date.. I don't really think my butt and vagina are the same thing lol.. I would be so uncomfortable and mortified if things with the butt escalated being that unlike women in p*rn I haven't had an enema and I don't want him inside my butt unexpectedly or during early dating... lol.. I was afraid he was going to try to stick it in my bum.. lol I apparently have a "perfect ass" and it gets normal guys to try weird things to early on

[Anonymous]

Love, it, love it!

[Anonymous]

I never understood why so many guys want to lick sh*t from their girlfriends ass. People need to get off the computer chair and stop impersonating stuff they see in p*rn.

[KingsOfleon88]

If she's clean, you're not "licking sh*t"...

[pootie]

or they just need to watch it closer & see what's really being done...lots of taint licking

[Asker]

lol after he jokingly told me that maybe he was watching to much p*rn... I told him on that everyone watches p*rn.. but I'll knee you in the balls if you try to come on my face lol

[Anonymous]

I think it's kind of hot. It has to be just washed though. I would not have done what he did.

It depends on whether you want to do it or not. You don't have to and he may not want you to. Though if he does, he has to understand that he needs to do a little landscaping back there.