as stated, I guess the fact that you have been with 15 men may imply you like men, if you were lesbian you would be more curious about girls, and probably would have gotten near the 3rd boy, and about the update question...
I will be willing to bet you have been upset about "all women are the same" kind of comment, it happens so often in GAG, just as much as "all boys are the same", but both genders get deffensive like "hell no, we are all unique" you know what, I believe that, for BOTH, and that implies 2 very important things, 1.- clearly not all boys suck in bed, if that was the case humanity would have perish long ago, perhaps you suck at choosing them? but more importantly, 2.-since all girls are different each one has her own way to get off, is not that all boys suck but a lot of them look for their own satisfaction, and while they may care for yours is clearly not as intensly as for their own pleasure, and there is also the possibility that you are amazingly complicated, it may be good, making you unique, but also hard to understand and please.
another important thing, while a guy may be able to come both by his hand or a girl of another man or a toy or whatever, there are clearly pairings that work better than others, perhaps you had not found someone with whom you are able to make "click", think of it as a talent, perhaps you can not play the guitar, but maybe the piano or flute, who knows, is about finding what feels right, but also, the fact that the lute may not be your instrument does not mean that it is impossible for you to play it, you just have to get familiar with it and follow some instructions and you can use it decently, a boy tells you "move like this" and "do that", "oh yes, like this" so should you, if he seems clueless guide him, train him he you may is for both of you to enjoy it.,
1. No, it doesn't make you a lesbian. Having a desire to have sex with ONLY WOMEN makes you a lesbian.
2. It also doesn't *necessarily* mean that all of those guys suck in bed. It's possible, but the odds are at least a couple of them should have been pretty good at it, and at least a couple were probably lousy, with the rest being fairly average. Maybe you're the exception and just got unlucky a bunch of times?
3. It's more likely that you are having trouble relaxing enough when you're with a partner, which is preventing you from truly enjoying the sex and actually reaching orgasm. Do you get nervous, or anxious? Are you worrying about performing, or what they think of your body, or anything like that?
For a lot of women, if they don't have a deep trust and emotional connection with a guy, they just can't "let go" and be completely open with the guy, and that is a mental block that can prevent orgasm. Once they either find someone they have that connection with, or can figure out how to get past their own mental block, things tend to start "working" for them in a big way.
The fact that you can masturbate to orgasm means your systems are all functional and connected properly; it's the addition of a second person in the room that's the problem for you. Do some thinking about what I wrote and see if an of that applies to you. If it does, then at least you know what to focus on.
Most women straight and some times bi have trouble getting orgasm with men
your only a lesbian if you like girls
Do you like girls ?
would you like to date a girl do you find us sexually attactive do you fantasize about women ?
if the answer is no then the men in your life just aren't making love to you right
their not mind readers you know you could start by telling them what you like .
No it doesen't at all. I know a girl who also says the same thing and she is not a lesbian that's for sure. But maybe you are for other reasons.
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Some women have great difficulties achieving orgasm in general, some women have great difficulties achieving orgasm from having sex. Sex apparently doesn't cut it for you as 15 men is quite a lot and chances are very slim that none of them knew what they were doing. Perhaps they just came before you could, so you could try having sex longer. Achieving an orgasm from sex usually takes longer than when masturbating. And some good foreplay can also help.
Not really, it just means that those 15 guys can't last in the bad enough to make you come.
Guys not being able to make you orgasm does not make you a lesbian. Gay or lesbian is not a physical aspect/thing. It's a feeling or belief. You are not a lesbian unless you are only sexually attracted to girls. Being with 15 guys clearly shows that you are not a lesbian.
Well 15 guys kinda makes you a whore not a lesbian.
only the men on gag care about this crap. men in real life don't and even if they did I don't care. Also the definition of a whore is someone who has sex for money. Please learn that before posting lol
Lol I was just trying to be funny. Sorry.
Are you dating out of shape guys? It takes a lot more energy to have an orgasm with hip thrusts than it does to pump your hand...
no I don't date men who are out of shape. They take good care of themselves. A few played baseball/basketball and football for my university and another guy was a little older than me but still in good shape
I think you are lesbian :)
no that doesn't make you a lesbian unless you are sexually turned on with a woman or when thinking about doing sexual things with a woman, however I bet its because your not fully comfortable with who you are with at the time or your not fully able to let yourself relax and enjoy the sensation, or the guy just might suck in bed lol.
After 15 men, Your vagina must be real lose by now.
So lose that you can't have pleasure. . other then your self
since it's your body and you know what turns you on.
lol babies come from that area. Goes back to normal when you don't have sex and its stretchy. I haven't had any complaints from all 15 guys and the next 15 won't either :) I'm sure you are a virgin and wouldn't know by your comment
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