After sex with him I stopped liking him?

I was dating him for few weeks and I liked him a lot, really! one day it just happened that we were at his home watching a movie, we started kissing and .. it happened that we had sex. His penis was very small ( really very small) , he finished after one minute ( really!) and his semen had terrible, really terrible smell ! I felt so grossed out by him , so disgusted I can't even describe! i am avoiding him now for 2 days and he writes to me, what should I tell him? if I tell him I don't want to meet him anymore it would be obvious for him that the reason is sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • This happened to me too. I really liked a guy, we ended up having sex and he was so small that it turned me off so much. He didn't smell thankfully but it was just to tiny. He kept texting me for months after but I just never responded back. It's mean, but I couldn't bring myself to tell him that I don't want to see him anymore so I just avoided him. That's probably not the way to go about it, but it saved for the awkward conversation.

    • oh yes that's the same situation :(

  • Best thing is to be honest (but not 100% honest here). Let him know that you thought you felt love but it wasn't and that you don't wanna waste his time anymore but that you feel you're not gonna work out.

    • "Waste his time" may be a bit disingenuous.

    • It's just an example of what she could say. If she kept him hanging on, to be honest, that is wasting his time.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I love how my answer got down voted, but lets face it, if you really liked this dude as much as you claim, you would try to at least work around it. If a girl can orgasm with her finger, I'm sure his penis could reach there and there always different things you can try to enhance the pleasure...and if the smell is bothering you why not go shower together and then have sex. Point is there are solutions to every problem

    • his semen smelled terrible, not he. And I just feel disgusted about him, I didn't like anything about him , his body, they way she touched me.. I don't think it can be fixed

  • Yes. Nobody gains from telling him anything else but: "I like you but I do not want to be in a relationship with you.". Unless you want to be cruel, that is.

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  • ...and they say women have it hard...right

  • Id tell him that you weren't sure about how you felt but you wanted to give it a real chance. It didn't work out though and you just don't see anything further working.

  • interested

  • Don't just assume he didn't feel the same way about you and how you smelled. He may be just being nice to you.