1. This fantasy is not weird, a lot of women fantasize rape and prostitution so it's perfectly normal
2. How wild you want the 'rape' to be is upto you and your boyfriend to carry it out
3. Even if you want to get beaten it's OK and fine as long as you both are mutually aroused and satisfied with it
4. Whether he finds it weird or not is something that depends on how close 2 each other you both are & how well you understand each other
5. There are however, lopsides to it both ways since these days nothing seems to be trustworthy, especially in such sensitive areas (please don't mind me saying that)
5.1. His side: How does he protect himself if you both like it and make a habit to carry out this fantasy regularly? Say someday you lose it on him for any reason and god forbid you guys have a fall out and you use the same bruises etc to get him arrested.
5.2. Ur side: He begins to like it too and as you guys go wilder with it, you begin discussing gang rape etc (don't deny the possibility - too soon for you to do that) & you even agree to it. Initially it remains fantasy with close circle friend(s) & he goes kinkier and invites people w/o telling you (since your 1st fantasy was 'unexpected') at which point you may not want it and it will still happen and THEN point 5.1. again apart from what you may go through.
6. Do it but keep it under control, a lot of people simulate and enact this but depends on if you control the horse or the horse controls you :)
are many guys into such things like gang rape ? I doubt?
I don't have statistics but there are many guys into gang rape just maybe a shade more than women who want it too :) Fantasy is good but always watch your back and know what you get into so that nothing comes as a surprise and one knows how to get out when needed :D
She will probably die of trauma. She doesn't know what actual rape is like. A situation where a girl is not less than any sex toy.
I read to here:
"I guess this is a really weird fantasy, but I would like to act like it's real rape. I mean he comes to my home unexpected, I'm screaming "no!, please leave me" , but he doesn't listen and is very rough, tells me to" shut up"..."
...and thought this is somewhat extreme role playing but is between consenting adults, so I would have only advised that you make sure others don't hear and call police. Then you lose control of the situation and he spends at least a night in jail. But then: "and beats me, and it's completely not romantic". You lost me there. The beating is a problem.
Had you said" ..and restrains me as he penetrates me forcefully and I resist but then I am consumed with the feeling of desire and can't help myself but to start fukking him and I end up having a powerful orgasm." Well, a little weird but hey, you get a happy ending.
But the angry violence is beyond weird. If you asked me to do that, I might contemplate pulling the plug on the relationship..
but by beating I mean only spanking, I don't want him to do anything very painful . This part isn't ok? and I don't want anything romantic yes, like we are strangers and it's real rape.
I will have to default to "no violence" even ritual spanking. Up to that to that point: "Whatever turns you on" so long as the neighbors can't hear you.. Read the post I responded "Amen" to. This is a real danger.
Omg, thanks for posting this just posted this while back ago but didn't get much of a response.
I think about getting raped on the interstate & a gas station bathroom.
I tried with one boyfriend and he just limp when I started crying. Now, make sure to use a safe word us are you trying to get me drunk.
We don't hit each other, but I we fight til he over powers me and rapes me, I kind of freeze up and think about the intestate and he has a thing about doing me passed out.
I personally think it's kind of "weird" but I also think S&M and all of that other stuff is weird. With that said I don't think it's wrong, I think people get off on different things. I don't know your boyfriend so I don't know if you asking him that would make him uncomfortable or not. I guess it depends on how kinky he is? I know some guys are pretty straight edge and others will do just about anything.
i don't think it's S&M because I don't want him to do anything what would cause much pain , and without using whips and chains.
First off, you can't rape the willing, second, what he does doesn't sound healthy. Or is this part of the scenario (you don't make that very clear). Rough sex is fine, pretending to resist is fine, but beating...not too cool. Why would you want the beating?
it is scenario, yes it won't be real rape, but I want it to look real and want to feel like it's real. beating I mean spanking only, I can't explain what I like about it.
Spanking is Ok, I'd say if he's OK with it then fine, but be careful. Just be safe, don't let it go overboard.
You really want him to beat you? I can understand the fantasy of being dominated or taken...it can be a turn on. If you were ever really beaten...you would not want this. There is nothing sexy about being bloody and bruised. I know. It is humiliating.
oh god I meant spanking, I don't want any blood and anyyhing painful. And I don't want to be dominated, I want to be raped.
Well if you really want to be raped... most rapist beat their victims. The victims are bloody and bruised and traumatized. My ex husband tried to rape me and believe me there was nothing sexy or hot about it.
i think the difference is that I want to be raped by someone I love, I think it makes sense.
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a "safe word" that both agree would be kill switch, stopping the action in its tracks, since pain levels/damage are not really well monitored when in the heat of passion
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ground rules on "the beating"
I would assume more healthy, adventuresome & lusty relationships would have something like this either going on or in fantasy
It may be weird, but so very common among us women! lol I've done it and it can be a lot of fun. Lots of times it is so hard not to just break out in laughter.
I'm not alone !!!
this is a very common fantasy, me and my guy do it a lot. now be careful and specific about what you want. do you really wana be hit? lol start off small then add to the fantasy
thanks u
I don't think it's "normal" but it doesn't mean that you shouldn't be into or talk to your dude about it. It is something you should approach him carefully. Just let him know I kind of have this fantasy... Would you be into trying it with me?
I think most guys would be intrigued and even if they're not into it they wouldn't be against talking about it, I suppose there are some guys this might just freak out, but I think you should be able to talk to your boyfriend about it.
good luck
I think this is way cute. Make sure you make a "safe word" to stop when needed.
It's not rape if you like it...
You better sign an affidavit not in front of a magistrate be clear enough if police is called in you don't want them to believe that argument does not hold water
Ok one, that is very hot and two that is a common fantasy. Just look it up on here so many questions on if this "rape" fantasy is normal lol. So you are not the only one. If you still don't believe me look up BDSM or rough in a p*rn site search bar.
Oh by the way you don't wanna be raped, you wanna be dominated.
As a dom dude you're like a dream girl of mine ;)
Rape fantasies are common. As long as its consensual it's okay. The part about beating you seems over the top though.
I hate you! I hate girls like you! You're nothing but a source of misery and drama! Countless of stupid trails are caused by your kind!
Dude they are a COUPLE, its NOT a one night stand just-met-at-the-club arrangement! Geez, lighten up some.
Are you retarded?!
You guys must be new here
Personally I can't do that to my girl but I still do have some weird fantasies in my mind you should still ask him. he might want too.
Give me your adress. Lol
But sorry i cannot rape..neither you yourself won't allow to get raped. I think you will be happy only with fantasies. But i get very curious when i come across girls like you. So rare you are
Being dominated is a normal fantasy, being raped and beaten is questionable as far as i'm concerned.
The first time my ex girlfriend ask me to do that almost word for word i thought it was strange than i found out that a lot of women fantasize about it,
there is a movie "Basic instinct" in which Michael Douglas does a friendly but brutal rape of Jeanne Tripplehorn, do u mean like that?
It's really not that weird. I think about half of the girls secretly have this fantasy.
Well I am not into beating down chick before that ha but yea I kinda have those abusive fantasies too its not like I'd literally do it and I am still pullin so yea its ok ha
can we message and play? You will beat me and I will defend myself
@yahoocom lmaoo wth
I have the same fantasies and we can have fun
I want someone to fuck me hard
how much hard? ;)
I raped my girlfriend once
date rape is very common
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