How many guys are "animalistic" in bed? Do you say these things to your gf?

[Anonymous]

I've always dated the really sensual sloww moving kinda guys... I started dating this guy who's SUPER animalistic in bed. The kind that just throws me on the bed and goes to work. Sometimes it's a bit shocking I must say. I feel like he realllly likes to be in control.. and I'm so used to things being more equal. Is it normal for guys to say stuff like this? "I love watching you squirm" "show me the girls" "I wanna make you scream" "cum for me baby" My last guys have always said stuff like... you taste so good... you smell good... I love being inside you, I love the way you smell. not come for me baby or I like watching you squirm. Is this guy just kinda dark? lol or are more guys like this? Sometimes he likes to hold my hands above my head and doesn't allow me to kiss him back... I'm so not used to being this submissive and I don't really know how to react back towards it. Can a guy really love a woman if he's like that in bed? Or is he just making me his play thing? I can't tell! He's so sweet outside the bedroom and then he's like crazzzyyy when we're in bed.

[cthreejp]

I like to enjoy the feel of both touching my woman and having my woman touch me, and that means taking my time and, literally, breathing her in and tasting her, etc. But I also like to feel confident, in control, and forceful sometimes. But with the last two women I've been with, it seems like I never got to that stage often or soon enough. (I actually came across this question because I am searching for clues on the Internet as to how to become more animalistic with my girlfriend.)

[Asker]

Hm, ask her if she wants it that way. I had some guy just go for it and it REALLY freaked me out. Luckily, I liked him enough that I just went with it.

[ketfoen]

I'm pretty much both, depends on the mood, but most of the times I'm more like the guy you describe animalistic. I like talking dirty and hear her talking dirty back to me, I find it very sexually stimulating. She likes it too so it's all good.

So how do you experience it, are you aroused by it or do you think that it is degrading somehow?

[Asker]

I kind of think it's degrading :/ but I tried it once and it was kinda fun lol.

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl and my guy goes both ways. Err ... I mean, he's both animalistic and sensual, depending on the mood. Ha, ha.

That stuff you say is very mild, as well. I've known a minority of guys who get really aggressive to the point that it can be kind of unpleasant -- leaving bruises on arms, light choking, etc. To some guys (and girls), sex and violence arouses them.

[Asker]

lol yeah, I've had a bruise on the face once, but I think it was more an accident

[Anonymous]

It sounds to me like he's just comfortable with you, and that's how he likes to act in the bedroom. from your description it sounds like he's a normal nice guy out of hte bedroom, so I don't feel like you've got anything to worry about

talk to him and ask if you can have sex with you in control some time, I bet he'll go for it

[justme20]

I love when a guy is like that. I've had my clothes and panties ripped off before and it was crazy hot

[Asker]

hahaha OK so he's not a weirdo!

[justme20]

hha no! I love when he does it

[jay914]

Im a guy and I do like being animalistic in bed. But I don't know what you said sounds kind of far from what I’m used to. I do like a girl who is submissive but I also like to be kissed and touched and grabbed by her. That must just be his style. And for me personally I can still love someone while being like this in bed. We’re meant to be animals in bed 😜

[Anonymous]

It sounds hot to me:)

[Asker]

lol kinda is, was a bit alarming ha

[Opinion Owner]

Well I would be shocked the first time he do that. After knowing his fetish matches mine then awesome!

[Asker]

yeah I've never dated a guy like that!

[Anonymous]

I love that!

The romance can be saved for love making (when we get into our passionate mode)

However, most days I just want us to f*** like rabbits.

[Asker]

hahaha. good to know. he's never really passionate though :/

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps that will come has his feelings grow for u

[Anonymous]

Ok I guys like that but that's just me! You said he is nice outside of the bedroom so I say if you like him try to relax and not think about it so much! I know my boyfriend loves me and he does the same thing and more!

[Asker]

that's good! I was worried he didn't like me and that's why he did it? idk!

[Opinion Owner]

Have you heard the saying "She is a lady on the street but a freak in the sheets" Guys love that they don't want a girl that is just ganna lay there! Get into it like he does it will be the best sex ever!

[Asker]

hahahaha ok!

[Anonymous]

I'd like to be like that, my partner's not into it.

Ideally, I want someone where we are deeply and passionately in love, and f*** like a head on car crash.

[Asker]

wow. I've never been like any guys like this. I wasn't sure if it was... just him lol.

[Opinion Owner]

I assumed all guys were like that, and girls didn't like it, growing up that's the impression I got. Now I know that a lot of women like it, sometimes I think more women then men. Its good to find a compatible partner.

[Asker]

ok, interesting. yeah, I am surprised I am okay /w it ha. I like to switch it up though. isn't "i like watching you squirm" kinda weird? lol

[Opinion Owner]

I'd say any of the ones you mentioned except 'show me the girls'. Lol.

[Asker]

oh... lol okay. so that's normal ha. guess that makes me feel better!