What would you do if you found out your husband has been posting nude pics of you online?

I recently checked my husbands email because I sent him an email and he said it did not go threw. When I was on there I saw an email that said he received a message from One Click Chick and the message said "I love your wife's t*ts keep posting please" I was Quite confused by this message. I clicked on the link in the email and it said welcome Braden45 And took me to the website. I clicked on the messages posted by Braden45 and there were about 8 pages of me naked. I am furious My husband is out of town right now working And has not answered his phone all day. The website will not let me delete the pictures without his password and I do not know what his password is. I am pretty upset and disappointed, at least he had the decency not to put my face in any of the pictures What little decency he has anyways. I do not know how I am going to confront him about this please any ideas would be appreciated. What would you do in my situation?
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  • This is awful and pretty much one of the most terrible down lowly things a husband can do.

    I'm a married guy too and pretty much a show off when it comes to my wife, I think she is gorgeous and sexy, but wouldn't do this obviously without her consent.

    I think your husband also thinks that your very sexy and gorgeous and probably has a hard time to contain his exhibitionism tendencies and is showing you off to give him the gratification from other men how hot his wife is and how lucky he is, it's kind of an ego boost and actually works positive for him and for you, making his feelings for you stronger. Well that's how I see it, or would work in my case.

    I am glad that he took measures so your face doesn't show. That would mean he doesn't want to share you completely.

    I think maybe you should post naked pictures of him on the same site, because I bet they have a section where men can also post themselves.

  • I really don't have an answer for you. I sympathize more so with you, but I only understand what he did.

    I am the type that would want to see my wife with another woman or man. And I have asked her if I could post nudes to others or on the net or her. And since she said no, I have respected that for the past 8 years.

    I don't think this is grounds for divorce, but I do think you have the right to be pissed because it shows a lack or respect for you.

    I would think that showing him that you are mad in a way, and some how getting him to promise he won't do it again won't stop him, but if you don't want him too, showing him you are pissed about it should do the trick. I would think.

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  • I'm so sorry!

    1) Report the pictures. maybe there's a link that you can click that makes the admins (administration) take it down.

    2) I would talk to him about it, and ask why he did it.

    3) "Out of town working And has not answered his phone all day" I don't want to sound mean, but maybe there could be a chance he is cheating? Maybe not. I just wanted to bring that up.

    4) Putting his screen name out there "Braden45" is kind of exposing him, maybe you should have left out his name. But if you don't care, then no worries

    5) Make an account on that website, and comment on it saying "Take this down" or something like that :)

    idk I'm just trying to help.

    • Also, you said you clicked the link in the email, and it took you to a page where it said "Welcome Braden45", it sounds like he's already signed in, so why do you need his password again to delete the pictures?

  • Some guys get turned on by having others view their wife in that way. Hearing how "hot" you are or having someone else desire you sexually, gets your husband off.

    Your husband could have at least asked for your permission.

    Be honest with him, and tell him what you found and how you did find it.

  • i think he's just trying to show off and get affirmation for what a beautiful wife he has. I'd still be furious though.

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  • Oooooh, I can't wait to see these answers. ;-)

  • Lol

    no offense

    Idk what to do...I think I would just get one of those spiny chairs and when he walks in spin around and be like 'I know what you did'

    So...all jokes aside.

    Kinda an a**holey move. Since the punishment should fit the crime...I think you should abstain for a while.

    To confront him though...hmm...not sure. If I think of something, I'll comment again. Heh, sorry..

    • lmfao but id be pissed. leave a little message warning... two apples and a banana with a knife stuck into it should do the trick

    • Hahahaha lol totally do that!

  • Sorry but you're an attention whore... I love how you kept repeating how his username was braden45, on One ClickClick. And OH NO he can't delete them now because he's out of town. Yeah sure...

  • You have every right to be upset. I have nothing to say but shame on him.

  • Im sorry this has happened to you...that is a messed up thing to do I don't really know how to confront this what is your wanting to work things out?

  • how dare you?

    you should be thankful that your husband finds you attractive enough to show you off.

    the only question here is why isn't your face in those pictures - privacy reasons or you're a butterface.

    if I were in your situation I'd really like to know that.

    btw, got link?

    • lol

  • This is obviously a spam question that gives just enough details so perves can Google the site, find these pictures, and possibly register themselves (or become frequent visitors). Either way, it's ad revenue!

    Cool story.

  • Hello divorce.

    • mmmmhmmmm very nice that you whont let him do that to you without a consequence.

    • Even though I don't agree with "what he did", it is still no reason for divorce. People are just to quick to do that crap now a days.

    • It's creepy as sh*t. That's loads of red flags right there.

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  • First of all they all need to be taken down. Not to scare you but there are probably even more photos of you out there because of your husband.

    I would kick his ass out, have the locks changed before he comes home. Get a divorce.

    If you want to try to make things work you need marriage counseling.

    What is the link for the website where the picture are?

  • That would be very unpleasant for him.

  • He odes have some.

    We would have to have a very major talk.

  • Another cheat freak

  • That is a lawsuit!