i don't know if I could handle getting something that could potentially be the best thing ever in the whole entire universe...then NEVER having it again! and being horny doesn't help. also, he's a crush. does this mean that you're not officially together?
when you find someone that totally blows you away, and you can't think straight or think of any good reason why you shouldn't go all the way? that's the one.
if you're having some doubts whether or not this is a good idea? then its probably not such a good idea...especially if it keeps coming up in your head like that.
you're young and you've never had sex before. this means you're gonna have a lot of chances with someone else who you're gonna get to see over and over again.
unless you don't really care about who you have sex with.
I say don't give it away like that. Especially if he is off to college or something of that nature. I think you should save it for someone you date and are emotionally bonded to. Not just "I like him" Your first time should be special although the sex itself will be pretty lack luster I am thinking. I could be wrong but you could be in for some discomfort. I will leave out the graphic stuff. Anyway, if you do have sex... he will be gone and you will be brokenhearted and miss him even more.
If you simply must get some action. May I suggest exchanging some oral? Perhaps you can get each other off in that manner. Still special but saving actual penetration for a more special longer lasting time?
Reasonable?
Good luck dear. This is going to be tough.
Eagle.
wait! a lot of times when you lose your virginity you become sexually and emotionally attached to that person! more so than you are already! just wait it out! if anything you could give him a hand job or blowjob?! but I'd wait on sex!
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