I'm 19 and have never done anything with a girl

I'm a 19 year old guy still a virgin and I'm getting tired of it. I have never done anything with a girl before, never kissed one got to 2nd or anything. I'm in college but I go to a community college with no dorms so I don't see too many girls regularly. I go to a few college/high school parties tho but no one ever seems to do anything at them. What I'm asking is should I just lose it the first chance I get or wait till I find a girlfriend I like? I want to wai for a girl I like to have my first kiss with and lose my virginity to but I'm just sick of waiting.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's be a terrible mistake for you to just lose your virginity for the sake of losing it no matter who it's with. Having sex isn't just a fun game to see how fast you can run around the bases. To be honest, it's actually about procreation so you want to keep having sex as something special. Wait until you meet some girl that means something to you no matter how long it takes. Just any ole girl shouldn't do. That way having sex will always have meaning to you and thus much more enjoyable. Meantime just go out and try to meet people, make friends and have fun. The right girl(s) will come along when you least expect it. When they do you won't have to get on there and ask that question. You'll able to make that decision between you and some girl that'll mean as much to you as you mean to her. That's when you'll know you the time you waited was well worth waiting for. Good luck!

  • I'm 25 and in that same exact position. The more you wait, the more you get frustrated so just chill back and not think about it too much. I suggest just wait till you find a girlfriend you like. That would be better but your choice.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you should wait, don't be in a rush! I'm sure you'll find a girl that's worth it.

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  • I am in the EXACT same spot man. So don't feel like you are alone

  • Neither have i

  • No offense but you are just a kid, relatively speaking. GAG gives a false impression about what age people start doing things. What's the hurry? Wait for someone you care about and who cares about you. It'll happen...