Why does my boyfriend always want to show my body off to his friends? It's been getting worse.

[Anonymous]

I have been with my boyfriend for about three years now and he is always liked me to show cleavage or show my legs off something like that or maybe wear a really tight shirt to show the size of my boobs And I have never really had a problem doing just that. Lately it has been getting worse, He wants me to wear tight shirts without a bra on so my nipples show through, when we are around his friends he does things like reach down my pants and pull the back of my thongs up when we are right in front of his friends And he has been groping my boobs and pulling on my top Until my bra shows. The other night we were at a campfire With some friends and I was wearing to tube top without a bra on and he came up behind me put his arms around me and then started squeezing my boobs together making my cleavage really big and shaking my boobs for his friends to see. Well when he put his arm down his watchband was caught on my tube top and pulled my entire left boob out and all his friends were looking directly at it. He has also done things like pulling my skirt up and smacking my bare butt right in front of his friends, I did not mind wearing the cleavage or the Short skirts and tight shirts for him but I think he might be taking it too far now. I have asked him to stop and he does for little while and then he just starts doing it again eventually, we have been together for too long to break up for this situation so that's not really What I want. Basically I'm just trying to understand why he want his friends to my thongs and boobs? Is it exciting for guys to show their girlfriends off? He is always taking naked pictures of me and pictures during sex together and I began to wonder if he has shown some of them to his friends.

[awkwardly_noble]

He probably wants to watch you have sex with other guys. This is a very common fantasy for guys. Men love the idea of a world were women crave us as much as we crave them. Remember the 60's everyone was doing the whole free love thing? I believe left to our own devices having lots of crazy sex was ok with a lot of us. The sex got slowed down my horrible disease A. I. D. S...

[KingsOfleon88]

From what you tell me about him, I wouldn't put it past him tbh. Odds are his friends have seen every part of you already.

[KingsOfleon88]

Tell him you're uncomfortable with it. Just because he's your boyfriend, it doesn't mean you're his property. F***, stick up for yourself.

[Michaelmwm19]

Yeah you can't let someone parade you around like your something to show off what is next? him wanting you to have sex with him in front of his friends? I wouldent put it passed him you should be with someone who respects you.

[Anonymous]

(Can't see how old this is, so Im gonna answer)

It's a "Look guys, this is my hot girlfriend, and I can touch her whenever I wan't" showing you off like an object, thing. He is a fucking asshole, and no way I would accept my boyfriend exposing me like that, but he is proud of your body, and want's people to be jealous. Like a "See this? Yea, it's mine"

[strawberrynecklace]

Oh my god if my boyfriend did that I'd turn around and smack him so hard in the face. That is NOT how a lady should be treated in public. Seriously he seems like a douche. Priorities my girl...

[PumpkinLiesLatte]

Honey boo boo child you need to get yourself a new man. He not supposed to be showing your goodies to the whole world. Dump the nigga and find yourself a prince charming.

[KrisPW]

He's getting excited by it, showing you off to his friends. Since he isn't getting permission first, I suspect they are seeing your pictures too. If you're not okay with that, you need to say something and be prepared to walk away.

[Michaelmwm19]

Huge red flag someone who loves you DOES not treat you like an OBJECT he is with you because he likes your body its that simple and obvious to see.

[TwiztedTD]

Couple things pop into my mind.

At first I thought maybe he gets turned on by the fact of other guys being able to see you, but not have you?

But it sounds like he is controlling, and treating you like an object.

[Caliguy88]

I don't know. My buddy always got his, now wife naked in front of me a bunch of times. He loved showing her off. She was hot... is hot... I didn’t mind but I didn’t get it. She was into it too. She wanted him to fuck her in front of me. That never happened. Glad about that.

[danik23]

He doesn't respect you... do not let him taking naked picture of you, he surely has shown them to his friends. No doubt.

[randyandelizabath]

I enjoy showing my boobs and other things so girl louse the thing and show off for him if he likes it my husband loves it so I show what my momma gave me

[miaandmarvin]

if your not feeling it you should tell him.

[Anonymous]

I had an ex girlfriend that set up 2 situations for a friend of hers to see me naked. After that it turned into wanting me to get naked since her friend already seen it. It worked a few times when I was drinking but I soon found out the first 2 times were actually on purpose. We broke up. Boyfriends and girlfriends are more than specimens to show off. Get someone that respects you more and is proud of you...not exploiting you.