Is sexual biting that leaves bruises by my boyfriend normal?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend will start rubbing my stomach and he will just grab me and start biting, then say sorry. He will do it all over my body, sometimes in the summer I can't even wear a tank or bikini. He says I just turn him on so much that he can't help it...like he very rarely can let me kiss his neck or ear or he will start grabbing me and biting, sometimes he even grabs my throat. So like I've never had anyone into me like this so I don't know what to think...Please tell me your opinion

[Anonymous]

I do that sometimes. I'll try to explain it as best as I can. Sometimes the way a girl looks into my eyes or touches me just makes me feel like I want to devour her and put my mouth over every part of her. If I'm in love sometimes just looking at my love makes me crave to bite her neck and other areas. When I'm feeling the most passionate and loving to a girl is when I get the urge to kiss, nibble, and bite her all over. Usually I can control myself and not leave many marks but if she lets me keep going it can get bad. I never get the urge to grab a girl's throat but sometimes if she turns me on I'll grab her from behind and push her head down by her hair, rip her pants down, and do her doggy right then and there.

[Asker]

Yea, I mean I get super turned on and get the whole biting, I like to bite and scratch, I guess he's almost bitten my nipple off and just bites so hard if I don't stop him that it kinda worries me...like he has no control

[Opinion Owner]

He probably is losing control in the moment. I know when I'm doing it I feel like I've already lost control but I must not bite as hard as him.

[Gnome0]

You need to communicate with your guy to tell him when something is too much. Maybe have a safe word. tell him what's good, what's bad, what's to hard etc.

[Anonymous]

he's into the rough stuff are you into it or is it a turn off? Personally this would turn me off I'm not into pain.