Honestly I think you are over thinking things. I was 23 and in the same boat as you. But the thing that I guess helped me in a sense was that I made a decision that I would be alright with where I was in terms of girls. So all my friends had girlfriends and I was the only virgin. I still hung out with them, I still went to work, I still enjoyed my life; why should I worry so much about being a virgin. With that attitude I began to feel more comfortable talking to girls, because then the goal wasn't to try and sleep with them, it was simply me having a conversation with another person. If things progressed and I felt comfortable enough with her to ask her out, then great, but if not then I knew it wasn't a big deal. In the end it's really all about your mindset. Don't build things up to be bigger issues than they are. Also, you have to want to improve not only your social skills with women, but with everyone. You need to get out of your comfort zone a bit to try and be more social. You don't like going to pubs, then you need to find a different place where you can go and be social.
0 0 0 0You don't need a book - at this point.
You're in a crowded city no doubt full of people used to ignoring strangers.
I want you to say 'hi' or hello to five strangers a day for the next week. That's it. Thy might say hi back. They might look stunned. They might swear at you. They might strike up a conversation.
Go do it, report back and ill assign phase two.2 0 0 0Is there a way I can follow your interaction? (I mean between Answerer and QA) seems like it could be really interesting lol
If he does updates sure, if not message me.
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it doesn't mean you're ,in your words, repulsive. it just means you're sorta shy in social situations. have you ever thought that maybe all the girls who have ever liked you were shy themselves and waiting for you to make the first move? I would expect a guy to know something by 17 [basics like kissing/holding hands/ dating] and sex by 21. and you're not alone I've seen other questions male and female where they've never had any experiences.
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0 3I think you should find a therapist who specialises in dealing with people with social problems. I'd also recommend avoiding anything on the internet which is trying to sell you a magic way of attracting women, no such thing exists.
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0 0 0 0You are not alone,I'm the same but for different reasons.if you want to talk friend me.
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