Men how important is deep or full penitration?

[Anonymous]

So the guy I'm dating is large...he's thick and long..I'm a virgin and don't think I'm going to be able to ever take his whole length. How important is this? can sex be good if a man can't go all the way deep?men have you ever had a women like this? If so how did you handle it? was it still good sex? girls have you ever been with a man who couldn't go all the way deep because your vag is shallow? if so what happen? did he still enjoy?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should wait to have sex with him if you are nervous about it, don't let him pressure you into it. I'm not trying to be judge mental this just reminds me of when I lost my virginity and I didn't enjoy it at all. maybe you should try dating someone with a smaller penis if you want to have sex, its more enjoyable with average penises at least for anyway me. but if you are dead set on having sex make sure you make out with him for like an hour before hand and lots of fore play.

[Asker]

I'm past waiting I am falling for him and want sex with him...he has never put one ounce of pressure on me at all...we have been dating for a year and make out all the time and he's never pushed me because I'm a virgin. we have talked about sex and ik he'd be good to me I'm scared I won't be good for him ever because I have a shallow vag and he's big.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry I answered with my own memories in mind. what you need to do is use lots of lube and foreplay and it will be fine. if it hurts just stop and try again later. you have to be really relaxed and turned on.

[britannny]

Length isn't what will make it hurt. It's the thickness that will hurt you. Unless he's so long that he'll be up against your cervix or something. That might be painful, but I wouldn't know firsthand.

[KJT6989]

Honey I lost my v-card to a guy that was 9 1/2 inches honey it will fit!

[Asker]

Holy cow...but the thing is some women have deeper vags than others...mine is shallow...my gyno even told me that :(

[G_GTom]

To the QA, yes, some women do have very deep vaginas. Heck, I knew a woman who could handle 12 inches. Though, it's unpopular to say that a women have different size vaginas and I'm sure women don't want to be judged on this. This is why see some people pushing the story every vagina is the same. In the end, the only way you are going to know is to see if it fits. If it doesn't, you'll have to make some decisions.

[klpic]

Don, t forget your vag will stretch a lot. Remember babies come out of it so you would probably be fine. but as it seems her really respects you I would hope he would go slow and not try to pile drive it in there. slow and soft and try out what works gently. good luck

[Anonymous]

Full penetration is not that important until the end for me. Sex can still feel amazing even without my entire penis inside. When I come though it's my instinct to push in as deep as I can and I've heard almost all guys push in deep when they cum.

[Asker]

I hope that's true for most men :) I can take some pain at the end if he's trying to push deep!

[Opinion Owner]

If your guy is anything like me he will start pushing deeper about a minute before he cums and then when he comes he'll do one or two final pushes in really deep and then he'll stop moving and come inside of you. That is how it goes for me and I can't really help it, instinct just takes over and I push deep. For the rest of sex leading up to that if a girl asks me not to push all the way I'm fine with that.