Having a small vagina?

I was sexting this guy and he said that he wishes we could f*** but my p**** is too small and his d*** is too big . I replied saying that I should loosen it up for him with a dildo and he asked if I had one then I said no but I better go get one. Then he stopped replying. I kinda feel like sh*t, he said I was too tight for him
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Is it possible to be too small for someone?
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  • I think this was just a failed attempt at turning you on by implying he has a big d***, not that you have a small vagina. He was trying to get you to salivate at the idea of him stretching you out and filling you up. Obviously he instead struck a sensitive chord with you.

    I can't say I've ever heard of a girl being too small, but I have heard of guys being too big. I know some girls are just smaller down there and prefer guys with average to smaller size penises. Larger penises actually hurt them. So in that regard I guess a girl could be too small. But again, that's from the female perspective. It wouldn't be the guy would would be making such a comment because its not really possible for him to be uncomfortable regardless of how tight the fit is. In other words, if a penis is too big for a vagina, is the girl who is going to feel the pain, not the guy.

    I also have to agree with Ighulm. I know I had a girl once that shortly after we started dating she started sexting me. This was new for me. I'm not a prude, but it was just a shock seeing a girl so open to talking about sex with me. It almost made me uncomfortable at first. I was afraid of going overboard so I kept it simple and ended the conversation soon after. I also know most guys aren't really big on texting so stuff like this doesn't do much for us. We're not going to stick around and sext for an hour because it just doesn't do that much for us. It likely could have been a combination of these two things that made him feel that he had said enough and it was time to drop the sex talk.

  • He was just dirty talking.. it's not meant to be taken seriously - you probably shocked him with the dildo comment though. Most guys aren't used to women talking like that - it also freaks them out because suddenly they picture you with a ginormous dildo that they couldn't possibly measure up to and that puts them off ;)

    • I don't know why, I still feel like a piece if sh*t. I kinda liked this guy since junior high , now we are twenty and reuniting, he was always considered one of those popular guys back in the day. The first time we sexted, he was really sweet and I felt really flattered. This time we texted, it kinda hurt my feelings , he said that. Made me feel like I wasn't worthy enough to get f***ed by him

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  • The vagina stretches. Heck a baby comes out and a penis is really small compared to a baby. Of course every guy wants to think he has a 9 inch penis with the thickness of a pop can and every girl is virgin tight and has a small vagina. yes you can take it and yes it can be uncomfortable but you get used it ot and your vagina will go back to normal. First he doesn't know your vagina. They vary just like penises

  • Having a tight vagina is never a bad thing in my estimation. No one like loose p***y. With that being said like the post below said the vagina has a amazing capacity to stretch. If he really wants to have sex Doll I assure you he could make that happen. (Lots of foreplay and lube). And as a man who is well endowed (presumably) he should know the process by now.

    • I'm going to say I have no problem with loose p****. All p**** feels good in my opinion.

    • That's true but medically a woman should be attempt to keep all of her pelvic floor muscles tight to avoid a protracted uterus later in life. This involves kegal exercises which have been known to make a woman's p***y tighter

  • Think about this for a second! You get pregnant, just exactly where does the baby make it's first appearance into this world? Yes that is right, through the vagina. Seems pretty obvious that if a baby will pass through the vagina a simple little penis will be able to get in it also.

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  • Honestly, that guy was just being a douche and "bragging" to make himself feel superior. He's probably not really all that big, and I'm sure you're totally fine.

    Don't let some douche-bag get you down.

    • He sent me a pic of his d***, it's pretty huge.

    • He is right, maybe my p**** is too small for him

    • Well, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Normally, being small and tight is a GOOD thing.

  • They expand, fit just about any size. Sometimes it might seem uncomfortable, but that is usually due to position than size. Given the fact that is how most babies exit, I don't see how he wouldn't fit.

  • Not sure what the question is.

    • Is it possible for me to be too small for him?

    • If you have a small vagina you may be able to accommodate most--or all--men--though they may not be able to go all the way in. Just because you can accommodate a guy doesn't mean it doesn't hurt though, so yeah I think you can be too small for someone.

    • I've heard more women complain about a guy being too big than too small.

  • The vagina is a curious thing because it will stretch to accommodate a penis and a child for child birth

  • Ummm maybe who knows? Having a tight p**** isn't necessarily a bad thing guys love tight and prefer tight p**** over loose obviously.

  • If I were your boyfriend, I could not wait to f***. Because I like you very pleasurable to f*** a tight p****. I find it hard to understand your boyfriend

  • What's the biggest thing you've ever had in your vagina them ?

  • Your vagina will stretch but that doesn't always mean that it will be pleasurable for you. Also, that guy seems to be a little insecure, if a comment about a dildo scared him off.

  • Of course it's possible but over time, it's just inconvenient letting it adjust and relax EVERY time the mood hits. What about quickies ... during those few minutes when the kids aren't crying ... before work ... etc.

    There's plenty of small hung guys a better match for you and these will be more fun, less critical and make you feel like a princess.

    Forget this guy, even if he was only being honest & not hurtful ... unless he knows a smaller hung guy from the locker room ...

  • I'm pretty sure it expands. I know my toys get bigger each time I buy a new one. LOL