How do you give a good handjob/wank?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and I'm tired of just making out etc. I wanted to do something different! I've already been fingered by him and I wanted to give him a hand job but I have no idea how to do it properly like I don't know is fast or slow better? do I have to spit to keep it moist...? an in detail explanation would be GREAT, if you could tell me what you like or what your guy likes too that would be so much help thank you xx

[Anonymous]

Tease it. Honestly, if you want to absolutely blow his mind, tease him while you do it. Eye contact is also a great way to turn him on. Make sure that you use lube, but spit can be great too, especially if you use your mouth to apply it. Use both your hands on him. Make it feel like he's totally inside your hands. Run them up and then at the head, flick your wrist a little. Also, another trick is to take just the tip in your hands and rub them over his tip in opposite directions. For the grand finale, grip fairly tightly (don't kill him, shame) and start slowly, but speed up. Don't worry too much about hurting him. Guys are far rougher than you will be on themselves. He'll be blown away. Make sure that as you do it, you sound as excited about seeing him get pleasure from it as what he obviously is.

[magpie35]

Just rub it and play with it you will soon get him hard and gently play with his balls and just watch his reactions then you will be able to see what he enjoys the most and he may even tell you what he wants you to do . Hope this helps

[Anonymous]

Ky is the best thing to us unless your man has a reaction to it. I boyfriend likes me to go really fast and play with his balls a little. Play with the head too it works as well he will go crazy.

[Method]

Hand jobs are just lame. I mean, of course it's important that you know how to use your hands when jerking off a guy, but I don't see why you wouldn't give a guy a blow job instead of just a hand job. You girls should read Jack's Blowjob Lessons (here's a link:
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[SuperFlanker]

astroglide ;) That stuff outlasts and does not dry up quickly

[dangibbs]

The trick is to clamp is dick in your hand and rub up and down slowly before increasing speed. The stringy bit at the base of his head is what arouses him so make sure your constantly brushing this.

Make lots of eye contact whilst you wank him and if you can, talk dirty as this will arouse him even more.

Also he'll love it if you play with his balls and even 'gently' claw your nails in them.

[Anonymous]

Play with his balls