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How to get rid of my "Good Girl" reputation?

I am so tired of it. Everyone will be sitting around talking about stuff; like where they partied last weekend, how high they got, who they slept with, stuff like that. I don't do that stuff and everyone knows it. Like yesterday they were talking and someone said bitch, and the girl next to me started saying "Oh no, not next to her. She's too pure to hear bad words." She said it so annoyingly too. Then today they were like "I bet she would pass out if she saw a penis." Then they made fun of me for being a virgin. I'm so tired of it. And it's not like I'm insanely unattractive. I get guys hitting on me all the time. I've had a lot of guys tell me they like me, then we start talking and all they want is sex. I'm very selective on who I give up my virginity to. I'm just so tired of being laughed at all the time. I know I shouldn't care, but I do. I need to do something to get rid of my good girl reputation without getting an even worse reputation.. Help me?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • One day you'll be thankful for the reputation you had! Honestly there's nothing good or fun about being known as a pot head, or druggie, a slut or someone who sleeps around! It's really nasty actually! You'll be happy when you finally are with a guy who deserves you, and who can say "there's nothing pure or innocent about her when she's in bed!" that's when your kinky, sexy, hot side should come out, in bed with the one person you love, not on display for the world to see! You my dear are a true lady! A woman of wise character! Why prove to them that you can stoop to their level and lower yourself to the point of almost being desperate? I can guarantee most of them, if they really think about it regret most of the things they've done, most of the people they've slept with, and are actually jealous of your innocence!

  • Stay the way you are. The grass isn't greener over here.

    I used to be just like you, in the same situation, wanting to be one of those girls who wasn't a virgin and partied.

    And guess what, I did. Yes I had a lot of fun, but its not worth puking your guts out, missing school/work because you're hungover, or getting a reputation as a slut. It is very VERY easy to get a BAD reputation for doing these things. 50% of all the hyped up "party life" is regret the morning after.

    I wish someone was around to tell me this when I was 16.

    I'm not saying don't ever drink and have fun, but don't ruin yourself. Nearly Everyone who has lost their virginity wishes they would have waited for someone special..Don't lose who you are.

  • I bet they're making fun of you because they're jealous. You didn't give up your virginity to some random guy, and you don't screw up your brain with pot on a regular basis. You actually have expectations you make yourself live up to. I was a good girl in high school too, and I'm happy I was.

Most Helpful Guys

  • "Oh no, not next to her. She's too pure to hear bad words."

    Curious why you didn't just respond with "F*ck you, c*ntmuffin".

    And as far as being a virgin, if anyone comments on it, just say that you'll f*ck a guy when you find one worth f*cking.

  • I would prefer not giving a f***. You can either sleep around so word will get around or you choose to stay the way you are. Why should the gossip circle of stoners and partyers affect the way you live your life?

    • what the f*** does stoners and partyers have to do with this? it should be why do you give a sh*t what d***s and bitches say.

    • Because she specifically mentioned people talking about how f***ed up they got, and she was somehow jealous.

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  • Well if your 16 it's time to give it up but don't make it easy at least date a guy for a year or a half and just go to parties a little more often you don't have to cause or get high to be cool and you really shouldn't even listen to people like that and if hey really do get high stay away completely people like that will get you in nothin but trouble I've seen girls and guys that are involved in that and they use girls and guys like you to blame and make fun of there not real friends

    • well not everyone's like that

  • Find some friends. Ask where they're goin. Tag along. But don't have sex or get high just because you wanna be a bad girl.

  • Hey Honey,

    I think being a good girl is better then having a reputation of being a slut. Sure its annoying, espacially if there picking fun at you about it. But consider this, you have something they dont, and maybe they are a little jealous about it, so that's why they poke fun at you. If I were you, I would wait for the right guy, to take your virinity away, you don't want to end up with a wrong guy and regret it later.

  • Next time they say something like that tell them to go f*** themselves. It may have a effect on them cause they think you are so innocent. Don't worry about what they think about you, just be yourself. You should slut it up because you want to not to satisfy a bunch of other people.

  • You could always wear a: 'I heart penis' shirt to school?

  • Bah, who gives a f*** what they think?

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