If my boyfriend asks me to have a threesome with his ex, should I do it?

[whatzittuya]

So my boyfriend and I have been planning a three some since before I was pregnant. after I have the baby he brings it back up. a few days went past till I asked him who he would have a three some with since the girl we planned it with got pregnant. he mentioned his ex girl kim would do something like that since she's bisexual like I am. not only did he say that but he said that kim is a freak like me, and that just turned me off when he said that. I want to be mad at him for even mentioning her since he said he would never do anything with her again, but at the same time I think kim is hot. I'm also the jealous type of girl and I don't think I can watch my boyfriend do anything with another girl (especially his ex) but he wants to do it all. what should I do?

[coco489]

Definitely, NO. Let's face the facts here, of all the girls you both know he picks his ex? What does that tell you? Guys aren't as stupid as we believe most of the time, or as stupid as they let on. They don't do things for 'no reason'. His reasoning however should of immediately put up a red flag since he said 'She's a freak like you...' which I'm assuming is a quality he is into since both you and his ex have that in common. And most of the time (depending on the relationship specifics), you always have that little bit of feelings left over for an ex because of the history there. You being the jealous type makes me wonder if you should have a threesome at all, don't make this decision because you want to please him because it could 'cause catastrophic problems in the long run. Not to mention, you have a child together, so really give this some thought because you're not the only one this may be affecting.

[chloenicole]

I personally would be very offended if my boyfriend mentioned his ex girlfriend because exes should be the past and id constantly worry about if he thought she was better than me etc. I think this is a bad idea babe and would cause problems in the relationship. I've always wanted to experience a threesome but I think that if your going to have one then you can't be a jealous person and you would have to trust your partner 100%. Don't do anything you don't want to do for your boyfriend because if he loved you he would understand and not put pressure on you.

[Anonymous]

I would be highly offended and suspicious. Don't do it just to please him. You already said that you are the jealous type, letting your man sleep with his ex is definitely not gonna help the situation. Put your foot down and say no. If you wanna have a 3some at least don't do it with someone he has history with.

[Anonymous]

I would think he obviously still has something for the ex. I think that may cause a bit of a problem in your relationship by allowing his ex to join in for a 3some. Just think, of all the girls you 2 could choose, why would he choose his ex? That may start a bad scenario you may not be ready 4...