My guess is he is not as attracted to you as he used to be or just not turned on as much anymore. Like you said it's only when he's really horny. This is not to say that his feelings for you have changed, he just is not as sexually interested in you do to whatever reason. Maybe the weight, maybe the lack of exciting sex (look up exciting ways to change your current routine), diet can also affect a man's sex drive (you can look up what kinds of foods diminish sex drives and compare them to his diet). Of course he is going to tell you that he is still attracted to you. He cares about you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
0 0 0 0i think the answer he gave you was bs. I don't think someone who has "had a lot of sex in their years" gets tired of having sex. Guys, correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think a guy would complain of having too much sex in his life, and use that as a reason why he isn't interested in sex as much. anyways, aside from his bs answer, the problem might also be with you. obviously you are feeling bad about your weight, and I know how you feel because I had a baby 3 weeks ago and I can't stand looking at my loose skin. you feel different, so maybe you are also acting different in your relationship.
0 0 0 0How are things going otherwise? I've been with my man 7 years and we have two kids. Sometimes things are hot, sometimes they aren't. How is the stress level. Jobs? Money? How much sleep is he getting? Are you mad at each other over anything else? It could be the weight or it could be something else? Sometimes when there are other stresses the love goes a little south.
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Hate to say it, but he's probably not as attracted to you as he was before. The weight gain and the depression that goes with it is a major turn off. Every guy fears that he'll settle down with a woman and then she'll start letting herself go and turning into that stereotypical shrew. And most every woman pleads with her man to believe that won't happen. Then usually she puts on fifty pounds or so.
I know it's not a nice answer, but you should probably make a commitment to lose the weight. The rest will follow suit. Confidence, energy, lustfulness; it will all come back. And so will he.0 0 0 0
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