Is sex after two weeks of dating a good idea, help?

[Anonymous]

He wants us to have sex after 2 weeks of dating help, what to do ? are already having oral sex just not penetration. I really do like him and it is hard having to resist him every time we are making out. I have a had time trusting people and even though we naturally clicked I just don't want to mess this up. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend we just go out a lot. I will hate to feel stupid if I give myself to him and he just forgets me thereafter. How can I change up the relationship? He wants me to sleep over. I really like this guy I don't wanna run around I want a serious relationship with hum

[stubbsy]

Just tell him that your not someone who jumps in the sack with anyone, your only looking for a long term relationship, not a one night stand, and that you think its to early to establish wether the two of you are going to last or not, if he is into you, he will wait until your ready, if he's using you, he will call you a tease and get the hump,x

[zxmmsl]

Be careful not to be used only for sex! How can he ask you for sex without being your boyfriend first? I have not asked my girlfriend for sex even we have been dating for 6 months. I love her, so I decide never say it first. When she is ready she will move first.

Good luck!

[rudy37lee]

If you have to ask, you aren't ready. When you feel comfortable and you like it's right, then it's right. For me, two weeks isn't enough. You barely know a person two weeks in so if you're looking to share the most intimate thing you can with someone, you should be certain you like them that much.

[Anonymous]

talk to him you hav to voice that you aren't comfortable with that otherwise how will he know. even if you lose him because of this it's worth it in the end.

because in my opinion I think it is foolish to have sex before knowing where this is going.

[Rbcnphs]

It is not advisable you need more time to get to know him

[Anonymous]

not good or bad. sorry for everyone I offend but waiting X amount of days is just dumb. it happens when it feels right.

you make it sound like you are in high school so if you are then ill go ahead and say that you shouldn't be having sex until you are living on your own and are ready to be an adult.

[Anonymous]

you know if you want to have sex or not. these questions are silly. will he be a different person if you make him wait 5, 10, 20, 50 more days? no. can doing that stuff drive a guy away? yes and it has nothing to do with having sex. my girlfriend for the last 2 years had sex the 2nd night we were alone...we werent any official title. we just knew we liked each other a lot and had only really known each other for about a week.