Do men prefer big or small boobs?

I'm 23 years old and I'm 34A, my husband says he likes big boobs even though they're fake, I wanted to get a boob job but I'm scared doing that, I asked some male friends about it and most of all of them prefer small boobs, when we have sex he never touches my boobs or kiss them:( so I feel like he doesn't want me but I like my little boobs and I don't know what to do.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • All guys have difference preferences.

    Did you husband marry you for your boobs or because he loves you? Maybe he generally prefers bigger breasts, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't like yours too. I would suggest that when you're having sex, you gently guide him to your breasts. Let him know that you like it when he touches them. Put his hands on them or you could always try laying on top of him and putting your chest in front of his face. This always seems work with my boyfriend.

    If you like your boobs the way they are, then that's what matters the most. I understand that you want to please your husband, but it is your body and if you don't feel comfortable with getting implants, then that should be your choice.

    By the way, it's great that you're comfortable with you body the way it is!

  • *facepalm*

    There is no definitive answer to this eternal boob question. The tastes of men are as individualistic as snowflakes.

    Your husband of all people should not be telling you that. He is suppose to love you no matter what. And heck, didn't he know you have small boobs prior to the wedding? If it didn't bother him then, I don't think it's a big deal now. If you feel this way about your boobs, you should express these feelings to him.

    Don't go for the boob job, esp. since you love your boobs!

  • You like your boobs and that's all that matters.

    He's your husband and he loves you for you so the size of your breasts shouldn't matter.

    During sex you could place his hands on them and make him massage them, moan and let him know you like it, hopefully he gets the hint and learns to appreciate them like you do.

    If he goes on about bigger boobs, tell him how you feel, or just go on about bigger penis's, then he may understand.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I personally like natural bodies in general and can't stand the idea of a woman pumping some unnatural substance into her just to increase her breast size. You leave your beautiful petite breasts alone! You need to talk to your hubby and let him know that you love it when he touches your breasts or kisses them.

    Healthy, mature sex in a marriage requires communication about likes and dislikes. He needs to realize that your breast are a part of you, but your heart is the most important thing. Don't ever get a boob job. I kid you not, I would much rather date a girl who is secure in her small frame that a girl who became something she is not. I avoid girls with boob jobs because it seems insecure.

    Love your small breasts! :)

  • I prefer small. I personally feel A is the optimal size. I am sure there are guys that prefer every conceivable size. I am all about your nipple, the bag it hangs on does not matter too me. And I also prefer small responsive nipples. I always enjoy when a cool breeze passes by on a warm day and they all spring to attention. That is so cute and sexy.

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  • I prefer smaller breasts. I don't think women should get breast implants just to look bigger. They don't look natural. I mean if you want them to look bigger wear a pushup bra.

    As for him not touching them, or kissing them. It's because he doesn't appreciate them. He prefers bigger breasts, as you said.

  • I prefer C cups but I've had plenty of gfs with As or Bs and that is just fine with me. Actually I have pretty small hands and a B is easily a handful. As long as you like your boobs that's all that matters. If you're not comfortable getting implants then don't. He may not touch them or kiss them just because that is his sex style?

  • I have said many times on other posts that I like big boobs, but honestly a girl does not have to have big boobs to be hot. A girl can have small boobs, and I can still find her mesmerizing. I prefer a girl to have small boobs rather than fake ones, because I fear for the girl's health if she gets that surgery. And I would always appreciate a girl's small boobs, and I would caress them without her having to ask.

    Boobs are not really a factor in any relationship I would ever have. I would fall in love with the girl for who she is as I see her.

  • he's ur husband. he should love you for who you are. don't change for anyone

  • do what makes you comfortable. You might have small boobs, but that's part of what makes you who you are, and that should be who he loves.

  • This makes me sad

    <32 A

    There is nothing wrong with you! Don't get breast implants. They are not worth it. The are painful, expensive, and can be dangerous. You shouldn't alter yourself just to make someone else happy.