Boyfriend doesn't like making out, what to do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I kiss all the time but we never "make out". It is only short pecks on the lips. Sometimes we hold it and make it a bit longer but that's all I get. I asked him about it and he doesn't like getting his lips wet and saliva and all that. Making out with tongues is a major turn on for me and a natural initiator of sex and I sort of miss it. Do I need to respect his preferences or is there some way I can change his mind?

[standUP]

You should tell him not us. Most guys need to be taught and told what to do. Be firm about how important it is to you.

Again he may not like it but if you hold back the things that please you your resentment will only deepen.

Maybe you could also be too slobbery. I love to make out but this one chic was like making out with a great-dane ! (or would imagine it to be like that. Lol)

So maybe you slow down a bit encourage him to pick up his game a bit and eventually it will be how you like it. Maybe!

Good luck !

[madhatters4]

he sounds like Charlie Kelly (from it's always sunny) who says kissing is "icky".

I think that you will have to decide whether or not you can eliminate making out from what you like to do. You certainly have a right to want to make otu and at the same time your dude does have the right to not do something he's not into.

I don't know if you can change his mind but really what it comes down to is are you going to be satisfied without making out or do you need to move on to a guy who doesn't find kissing icky

[Anonymous]

that's stupid I don't think you need to respect that but I think you should remember this is how it's going to be and if it is a deal breaker for you. for me it would be.

[CrystalMinds]

Ask him to try it out, and if he doesn't like it, you won't do it (as much). Some people aren't into all the tongue action.

[stubbsy]

Tell him its important to you that your able to connect with him on this level, without it you feel unwanted and unattractive, this will pull his head out of his ass and make him make an effort to please your senses instaed of numb them to death,x

[lefthand]

Make out with someone else. He might get inspired... or you might. It is always a bad idea to to refuse to do what turns your partner on.

[cavmanier]

Some people are just that way.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I get tired of making out sometimes and just want her mouth on my d*** already. Women find kissing a lot more sexual than men do.

[madhatters4]

this is absurd. sure all men like a blowjob but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make out or a girl shouldn't expect it... "UhI don't like kissing, suck my d*ck instead".

[standUP]

WOW, Douche of the week award goes to the guy hiding his profile, but yet secure enough show his true worthiness to the opposite sex, CONGRATULATIONS !