Do guys always finish fast their first time?

Just wondering what to expect? Has anyone ever had a guy last a long time, or guys have any of you lasted long your first time? Also can you expect a guy to be good in bed his first time? What I mean is if you haven't told someone you're a virgin is it possible to pull it off without her realizing it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i lasted a bit over an hour post foreplay. we were drunk. id like to think it was good since she wanted to spend the next several nights together. she had also had sex before if it makes any difference.

    i didn't tell her that she was my 1st...not sure how I feel about it looking back but idc at this point. I told her after we had been having sex for about 2 weeks. I also asked her if she honestly knew I hadn't before, she said she couldn't tell. it did change things a little when I told her...she was a little more lovey & closer with/towards me. I think she liked it that she was my 1st & it made her feel special (for whatever reason)

  • there are some guys who last for 3 hours on their first time.

    personally I lasted about 2 minutes

    most guys finish early because they are so bombarded and overwhelemed that they just lose control and bang its done

    but not to worry about it though if a girl knows its your first time she won't be expecting a god

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, guys don't always finish fast their first time. Some do, some last a good amount of time, some may even have difficulty reaching orgasm.

    I've had sex with a few guys who were virgins and none of them finished quickly. I can't really put a time to it, but it was an enjoyable amount of time.

    Some guys who are virgins are quite good their first time and I wouldn't have guessed that they're virgins if they hadn't told me. Some guys who are very experienced aren't very good in bed.

  • When I have had sex with a virgin he's almost always finished early. Personally, I think the only way to not seem like a virgin is to not be a virgin. Everyone is inexperienced their first time, so she won't expect you to be glorious haha. You will be fine.

  • I don't really expect much, but I condition any that come my way so the next girl can enjoy him more.

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  • I didn't finish my first time, I was so nervous. I didn't finish my second time either. Wasn't until the third go that I was able to take it all the way.

  • for most guys yes