Guys-how do you get pleasure from dry humping?

So I've been with my boyfriend now for a little over five months. I'm 26 and he's 34, and we've had sex. I never had a dry humping experience before him, but he seems to really enjoy it. I.e. he will go at it for like 5 to 10 minutes before I start to actually initiate sex. The last time we were doing this he said that I feel so good even with all my clothes on. I don't understand this. I've read and heard that dry humping is basically for girls' pleasure since it stimulate the clit area more. How can guys get real pleasure and enjoy this? And why would you do it rather than just putting it in
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think it can be great foreplay to get the juices flowing [for both parties, lol] and amp up anticipation, but I wouldn't consider it a main event type deal at all. It feels good to use because the guy is rubbing up against the clit, and it feels good for them too because they're rubbing their boner all up in our area, haha. It's like rubbing his junk through his jeans. It's not the BEST and you certainly don't want it to stop there, but it still feels good because regardless, you're rubbing his junk. =P

Most Helpful Guys

  • our penis tip is basically the same as a womans clit so its like rubbing our clit on your butt which feels so damn good...and whenever us guys dry hump it bends our penis in a weird way which is extremely pleasurable hard to describe because you have obviously never had a boner I did not know when enjoyed this as much.

    • It feels different than vaginal intercourse but don't know why he would chose dry humping over the real thing.. weird I guess its kind of like how some people have a foot fetish? dry humping is just your bfs cup of tea.

    • Two things 1. majority of the time he does this with my pelvic area-not the bum. So right there it's going to be more boney and not as cushy. and 2. So you're saying it's very enjoyable. However, would you really rather do that instead of sex

    • i would rather have the real thing anyday that's just me tho but yeah dry humping is pleasurable.

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  • Dry humping can feel really good for me. It's great foreplay.

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  • I've been wondering the same thing actually...I never understood that at all

  • If you rub anything on a penis the guy is going to like it, so yes, rubbing your body against his is going to feel good.

  • For me, it does not provide satisfaction.