How to have anal sex without it hurting?

I'm new to anal sex, how do you have anal sex without your butt hole hurting like hell? Me and my fiance have tried a few times but every time he... Show More

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  • you REALLY have to go slow, ie: lets say he's taking you doggy style, get him to put lube on his thumb and tease your asshole, slowly at first, 5min at least of RELAXING the ass, finally when you are turned on enough (and you MUST be open minded or it won't work) let him slip in the thumb SLOWLY, another 5 min, try the index finger and maybe another TIP of another finger, work those two in. once BOTH are in, he will fit in! trick is: slow, patience, communication, relaxed open mind, and it should blow your mind!