Why are girls/women, so scared of or turned off by crossdressers/crossdressing guys?

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As I sit here in a black bra and panty, I'm curious as to the opinions of the female members of this community and their opinions.I am a part time male to female crossdresser that pretty much only wears bras and panties, and occasionally pantyhose and or a dress. I'm not a "full blown" transvestite that wears women's clothing all the time. Nor do I want to be. I am very much a heterosexual male that likes nothing more than the touch of my girlfriend. But, there are those times I really like to wear women's clothes. She has stated that  she "accepts" it but will not "participate in my "stuff".  Her words.    Why is this so wrong? And particularly why is it so wrong to the female community when it is so widely accepted that women can wear men's clothing without Anything being said at all

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

yes but your missing something, girls can wear pants and blouses because it got popular in the 70s, yet girls have their own kind of pants and shirts/blouse, its not hard to accept a girl who wears pants because everyone does it, its no longer weird and became quickly accepted partly because guys were always trying to look up girls skirts and take pictures of random girls from below the table, passing by or even on a train, guys killed off the trend of skirts in girls basically

guys however are very masculine in general, they classify those who are borderline femeinine as homosexuals and transexuals, fyi guys invented this classification not girls because masculine men wanted to be completely separate from feminine men, guys in between are great company and make good bf's, but borderline feminine or beyond borderline is pushing it way over the edge, not only is it weird and strange it becomes gross, homo's are easily tolerable but trans are disturbing

we have plenty of transexuals here that you'd swear was a girl, no adams apple, long neck, curves, skinny fingers, feminine build, soft skin, breasts(most are fake but there are few that are real), long hair, etc, because of surgeries and excessive doses of estrogen tablets and anti testosterone, they even have a p**** o_o

anyway I don't really mind if I see a trans because I've seen much more than my fair share in one lifetime, as long as he's not wearing stolen underwear or someone elses underwear and owns his own clothes legally and doesn't flash anything in my face and doesn't harass me in any way, otherwise ill just shoot him with a stun gun and call the cops, my country may be OK with it since they even host festivals for lady boys but I'm only just barely tolerating it.

mormollio · Accepted Answer

We think you're either gay or may experiment with men and become gay later (that's may take on it,  but I have a complex involving gay guys so maybe that's not what everyone else things)...Also not that many women are attracted to seeing their man in a dress. I'm attracted to feminine men and I think it's interesting to see what he looks like as a girl, but other than that I don't want cross dressing to be an everyday thing in my relationship.

celestialdaeva · Accepted Answer

It's not wrong, it just isn't attractive.  I like my men to be and look masculine.  Men usually like their women to be and look feminine.  Women wearing men's clothing isn't wrong, but most guys aren't attracted to girls who dress "butch".  Pants in general are not men's clothes.  Women's shirts and pants are cut and designed to flatter and fit the female form.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I wear panties daily and my wife loves it. I did not start for sexual reasons, rather comfort and how it felt when wearing them. Better cut, selection and fabric.

Granted I could use a little more room in the front but I am not large when flacid but when erect, it is a bitch.

rdm999999 · Accepted Answer

You and I are breaking the acceptable social structure by wearing clothes that don't fit our gender. I have created even more issues by wearing diapers, considered much worse than crossdressing apparently.

temptationfalls · Answer

I wear almost nothing but panties. Most women want a masculine man and not a feminine one as a partner. To most people, men showing femininity are weak.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't turn me off I guess because I'm bi but if that's what you wanna do sure if you can make yourself into a pretty girl and your preforming cross dresser I take that as an art form

but you know what would be fun is if you role play a girl God I'm such a perv I'm the only chick that likes this I'm gonna go anonymous I can 't reveal myself

Anonymous · Answer

it's weird. plain and simple.

Anonymous · Answer

Like mentioned before, it's pretty feminine.  If I want femininity, I'll go gay.

Anonymous · Answer

People view it as strange ,  Which it is . The anonymous girl underneath me said ,  Many women are attracted to sissy men .  I'm sorry I mean feminine men ,  I disagree   I think less women are attracted to these type of men .  Especially if they're heterosexual .  I don' want to see no man wearing panties ,  That's just confusing .  So when I see men like this out ,  I think they're confused .

Anonymous · Answer

Well, it's considered feminine. Many women aren't attracted to femininity in a guy.

Reason it's acceptable for women to wear men's clothing but not for men to wear women's clothing: the belief that femininity is bad in general and that feminine men are gay (and thus also bad)

FYI I don't believe in any of this. I've asked my boyfriend to wear my panties :P

Anonymous · Answer

Because its unusual and quite strange if I'm being honest sorry.

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