HELP! Can I Get Pregnant if he fingered me with precum on his fingers? I am a really fertile woman!

[SeekingWater]

My boyfriend and I were hanging out yesterday and got pretty intimate, we made out and he fingered me, while I got up the courage to feel what a penis is like for the first time lol, but we have never had sex, never grinded naked or anything like that. BUT I realized today that yesterday he paused at one point and 'adjusted' his junk and I know he had precum Because I could feel it, so I don't know if it was on his fingers or not when he proceeded to return to fingering me moments later. Could I get pregnant from that if he did? It's making me paranoid and scared to death, I know I'm supposed to get my period within the next week or so, and I know that all the females in my family are really fertile ladies, so much so that my mom said she could grow daisies if she wanted to. I don't know what to think, because I'm not on birth control and so I don't want to get pregnant, I don't know how big my chances are because I'm such a fertile girl. It's scaring me and I don't want to have a kid at my age, I'm not ready! Since I'm supposed to get my period within this week or next week, does that mean that I was at my highest peak of fertility when he fingered me? If not, when is that anyways? I have always been confused on that. And if I DO get my period, then that means that there's no way at all that I could be pregnant, right? help! my parents would disown me and I don't want the baby, I would have to go get an abortion but I don't even have the money or the transportation for that! I know I'm overreacting but one of my biggest fears is this stuff so I just want to make sure I don't screw up my life!

[Anonymous]

It is extremely unlikely, basically impossible. Precum does not contain sperm, but there might be some left from the last ejaculation he had, which would then come out with the precum. But seeing how his penis wasn't in direct touch with your vagina, but it was (if at all) transferred via his finger, there's a bigger chance that I'll win the lottery (and I don't even play) than you being pregnant.

[Anonymous]

Well you COULD get pregnant that way, but the chances are highly unlikely.

Maybe you should steer clear of messing around down there if you're so against having a child.

[Anonymous]

highly doubtful that you'd get pregnant. how do you know you're really fertile?

[SeekingWater]

it runs in my family, all the females in my family are really easy to get pregnant, although its controversial, my mom had to get a couple abortions because her birth control wasn't strong enough. o.o

[big_jimy_pimp]

well if it was just precum no not realy. because precum is basically a substance/fluid that exits the penis to clean out the path for the sperm, its function is to kill germs/ anti bodies. but if it was sperm that's a different story even then it might be very unlikely,considering the amount that was on his finger. don't they tech health class any more?

[SeekingWater]

not in my school they dont. :/ but they should :(

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Actually pre-cum can have sperm it in and could get a girl pregnant, it's just so very unlikely because it's not nearly as much and ya...

[SeekingWater]

thats what I worry about :/

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

Don't worry about it, it's HIGHLY unlikely you're pregnant. Like, you have better chance at winning the lotto than get pregnant from precum I think.

[SeekingWater]

yeah, that makes me feel better I guess, I just wish that sometimes there was an easy way to tell if you are pregnant right away o.o then I wouldn't be so paranoid.

[big_jimy_pimp]

actually there is no way in hell the sperm in precum can ever get a girl pregant...TheGodEmperorLeto becuse sperms that exit with precum would die or spoi the instent they mix up with the forghen boides or germs in the uthria not to mention the acidty of uric acid or urine so no precum can't get a girl pregnant... and if we say it could just so we don't make any one look stupid. the amount of sperm in precum on her boy friend`s finger will not reach the overys

[big_jimy_pimp]

Approximately 200- to 500-million spermatozoa (also called sperm or spermatozoans), produced in the testes, are released per ejaculation and out of the huge number only one sperm gets to reach the egg(2 in twins) why because most of them die on the way . so lets say in pre come there well be a hundred sperms(wich is ver unlikely) the sperms would die that's if they didn't die the instent the mixed up with the precum.

[SeekingWater]

thankyou for the amazing answer o.o I had been stressed and told my parents about it they said the same thing so I'm not as worried, plus the stress gave me a cold, ugh. >.< lol but thank you, I like scientific answers :)

[Girl0023]

hi ! This happpened to me too! And I am so scared I'm so not ready for a child , did you ever becom pregnant?

[SeekingWater]

@Girl0023 I did not, I am perfectly fine, I just get so nervous about pregnancy because I'm not at that point in my life right now. HBU?

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

It's possible, but it's HIGHLY improbable. In fact, so very much it's nigh impossible. But if you aren't ready for the consequences of sex or sexual interactions, should probably think a bit more before engaging in em.

But ya, I wouldn't worry about it.

[SeekingWater]

yeah I'm going to be smart from now on and take BC so that if we do be stupid I won't have to worry as much.

[rickerrock]

did you take BC after you found out you weren’t pregnant? or right when you got scared

[fisher01]

is this a joke ? Think you post yestday too

[SeekingWater]

no its not a joke, why would someone make a joke out of this? :(

[Cottoncandydreams]

Probably

[WorriedGuy]

So what happened? Did you got pregnant?

[SeekingWater]

nope!!!

[Anonymous]

Extremely unlikely

[Anonymous]

I doubt it.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't worry too much but if you miss your period take a home pregnancy test.