What does it mean to humiliate a girl during sex?

A guy that I work with, said the best sex for him is when he can humiliate the girl. Not in front of other people, but just for him personally. I asked him, what he doesn't like the girls that he's with? He said no I like them and all, they are good ppl. Its just what I like sexually. What is humiliation sex? I didn't want to ask him because it was just such an awkward thing for him to say. I'd never heard of that before.
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  • My friends Co-worker was someone like this...Met his at my friend's BBQ. I can only speak for this guy, he liked to humilate girls during sex. Make fun of them, belittle or say mean things about their bodies during sex. It gave him sexual gratification, this is pretty much a distorted, warped individual.

    The best way to put it into context. A lot of child molesters were molested as a kid themselves. The feeling of helplessness and victimization somehow translates into their adult life. So they do it to others. These are really sick individuals...

    So with that being said, My friend told me this guy that liked to humilate women because this girl in High School made fun of him really badly when they had sex(it was one of his first times). He didn't go into detail...But apparently he really had a thing for this girl and it really did a number on him. So he has been doing it to other women ever since. Sick.

    Who knows...

  • Kinks come in all sizes and shapes. The kink you describe isn't uncommon at all. It's a form of domination. Some women really get off on being "used" during sex, often verbally. I enjoy calling my girl names. It's sort of a role play thing where I'm the upstanding guy and they are the slut. It's a term of endearment, strange as that sounds. If you're not into it, you may never really get it but it doesn't matter because you shouldn't be with someone who dominates that way if it doesn't turn you on as well. Contact me offline if you want to discuss this further.

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  • he likes to come on their face and make them feel dirty during sex. OR possibilty spank them. He like a submissive woman and bed. the wording is worse than it sounds its not anything crazy or bad.

    i get of on being used by my guy, so I'm the very submissive type and he and I would be a good match if that makes sense

  • He's twisted and disturbed, probably an undercover rapist/abuser as well

    • unfair projection.

    • It's true. I'm guessing the abusive guys with issues don't want me telling the truth

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  • slap you, spit on you, call you names, gag you (either with a ball or his p*nis), etc.

    where do you work that guys are talking about rather revealing fetishes like that?

  • Showing them a picture of their sixth grade year book picture mid-doggy.

  • It could mean he likes slapping, spitting, cumming on their face, holding their nose whilst getting a blowjob, some like to piss on people, name calling.

    BDSM type stuff, which you all apparently like from how big 50 Shades of Gray was/is.

    • I'm a fan of bdsm shades of grey was not my thing.

  • It means to degrade you. Call you names, spit on you, maybe slap you around or slap your face with his d***, treat you like a piece of meat.

  • some peeps like different things. my friend seems similair - he goes for anal on the first date, and he tries to stare at them in the eyes while he does it.

    it always stuck with me, him saying that, cause its so strange anyone would want to do that. but for every person that wants to do something to someone else, there is someone who gladly receives it!

    why don't you try to hook up with him and see what it is he likes to do, stop his ass before he gets his fix, do something to humiliate him back instead, and let us know!

    • haahah ... because I have a boyfriend and something tells me he wouldn't appreciate my experimenting with another man (particular, just for the sake of gag users) lol.