Lately I have been thinking more and more about.....

[Anonymous]

more and more occupied with other guy's penises. Not just trying to see them at the urinal or while changing in the gym locker room or the shower but even thinking of them while having sex or masturbating. Lately I have wanted to know what it is like to give another man head, to have him shoot in my mouth or to have him take me doggie style. Worse yet, I am more attracted to the smaller ones then the big fat ones. If I am in the shower with them and see them soaping up their bits I get harder then when with a female. Is there something wrong with me? Am I gay? What should I do? I mean I am still getting hard with girls and having sex but when I orgasm it is always with a thought of me getting it doggie style, of performing oral or even of me rimming another man. HELP!

[SomeGuy37]

Fantasies are AMAZING fun, and getting off to them is GREAT!! Is it Fantasy, or something you REALLY want to do? The REALITY is NEVER as AMAZING as the fantasy!!!
Forget the labels!! If you really want to try it, do it with someone that is a friend, or someone you trust!! If you LOVE IT, cool! You figured out something that you love!! IF not, it was a fantasy that wasn't what you thought!
Exploring your sexual feelings is totally normal, and you don't need to think you are one way, or another! Try it, and see how you feel!!

[Racez]

There's nothing wrong with you.

It's just that you think a lot of those penises.

[sammy67]

Why don't you try going out with a guy in the future but first I think you need to come to terms with who you are .

nothing is wrong with you I don't think your gay if your getting hard with girls

you do know the meaning of the word gay besides happiness means men that only like men

so I'm pretty sure if you were gay you would only get hard for men .

[OralB]

^Exactly what she said. Still, I don't even think you'd be bi or gay unless you're romantically attracted to both genders.

[harveykinkle]

Nah. I'm sure everyone questions it at some point although no one is brave enough to tell you that.

Don't worry about it! Give it a try, see if you like it :) After you try you have a 50% chance of not thinking that way again .

[Yellowsmurf]

Questioning it isn't quite the same as actively trying to look at other dudes, masturbating to it and thinking about it during sex.

[harveykinkle]

So. We're all gay in some way. Sex with your own gender is so good! Think of how when you spend years and years doing something and you get really good at it? Well...

[Yellowsmurf]

I...I literally have no idea what you've just tried to say. Either way, everyone questions it at one point, if you realize you're into it then good, if you're not then also good.

[Yellowsmurf]

Again, though, he's a fair bit beyond the standard questioning part.

[Anonymous]

You may be bisexual or gay. But either way its not something you need help for. Just be yourself. If you are that curious why don't you try hooking up with a man and see what its like.

[Belgie]

You are gay, or at least bisexual. That does not mean you need help.

[Yellowsmurf]

I voted A but it's not something I think you need help for.

[Anonymous]

Even if it means you aren't straight - doesn't mean you need help or that something's wrong with you...

[Anonymous]

Nothing's wrong with you...

I consider myself to be a heterosexual man as well... but whenever I watch bisex videos or when I see an erect penis, I too become mesmerized - I say embrace it :)