Do black or African American women like oral sex? What are the differences between them and white women?

Idk where I got this, but I've believed for a while that black women like oral sex less, giving and receiving, and they are more sexually reserved. black women, do you think this is true for your own life? do you like oral sex? what are things you absolutely won't do, sexually? guys who have been with black women, what have your experiences been like?
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  • i think it has more of a negative connotation in our community, and many of the older people in our community frown upon it, people in the church (which has been a big part of the African American community historically and it still is) don't condone it either, in my experience. the message to me was that it was immoral, disgusting, filthy, and "that is not what god made your mouth for." in high school some of my black friends and I were completely turned off by the idea of oral sex and some of them stuck to that.

    however, I don't think you can say most do or dont. Or at least I can't say that, but I'm just mentioning the attitude in the black community toward oral sex that I think is more negative than it is for white Americans. just my observation, I'm sure other black people may disagree. that's okay.

    Ive heard it the other way around too - that black guys usually don't go down on women. But then I also heard that they specifically don't go down on black women...lol who knows. I've never been with a black guy, and even if I had been with one, it wouldn't be enough to judge that. I have black friends who have oral sex with their black partners though.

    you should just take people as individuals though. the minute you start expecting one race of women to look a certain way, have certain traits, be into certain sexual things, or not into certain things, you may come across one who contradicts that expectation and be into her. personally, I'm all for oral sex, I love it! On both men and women ;)

    Seriously, it's really hot.

    I think a lot of women are self conscious about their junk, so they don't want someone just staring at it. also some people are less comfortable being in that kind of vulnerable, passive state I guess. I don't share that specific insecurity, but you know, everyone is different. I'm pretty happy with mine. I think its selfish to get it and not return the favor though, unless the person really doesn't want it. I'm a...very generous person. Yup, that sounds better. lol

  • black women and white women and any other color of skin women all have the same body parts that all work the excet same way. So with that being said if someone doesn't like oral either giving or reciving it is a personal choice and has nothing to do with the color of their skin.

  • There's always stereotypes

    Black men won't give, white men like little kids, Asian guys have small wieners, Asian women are submissive, white girls are the most open minded

    I'm part black and I don't receive but I love giving.

    • hahahaha. awesome.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have been with plenty of black girls and have never experienced them not giving me oral. To me it seemed that most of them actually enjoyed it more then they should have. What was a real turn and the best blow jobs I ever got.

    Worse blow job was from an Asian chick, she was only sucking the tip of my head and didn't even use her tongue, I tried telling her, but she just damn smiled at me, well I guess she will never learn how to give good head.

  • I'm going to guess something. I don't think this is a racist comment - just an observation, and applies equally to all races of women, and quite possibly of men.

    I'm going to guess that people who are happy to date interracially are more likely to be open minded when it comes to sexual practices.

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  • As a white woman I have been with a few black girls, and all of them enjoyed giving me oral just as much as they enjoyed me giving oral to them. So I think in general your thoughts are incorrect.

  • It depends on the girl.

  • I freaking love it!

  • Skin color does not determine sex interests.

  • I like oral, but I won't give it to any and every guy. I wouldn't do it for a guy I wasn't serious about.

  • they like white men cause they have smaller weenies...

    • LOL

  • How would you like having a BBC shoved down your throat?

    The one aaf that I was with was (26) never gone down on. She loves it and even offers me gifts and money now to do it (even though I do not think I am all that good)

    • LMAO

  • I am black and I don't like giving it, but like receiving it. My black boyfriends did not mind me not giving them but my current white boyfriend likes it. I use it as a tool to turn him on when he seems disinterested in having sex with me

  • this better not be a racist question towards white or black girls.

  • The black girls I've been with have all liked oral, giving and getting. But I haven't been with scads of black girls, just a few.