dont expect any girl to be chaste, if theyre very religious and have beliefs tying that together then in some cases you can expect it upto 15/18, if not don't expect chaste to be existent at all, girls as early as 8 start wondering about stuff like that and "experiment" as early as 10 (not gross its natural, also part of being more self conscious) girls become self conscious earlier than guys do in their childhood in general (at least that's what sx-ed about it lol, I think guys just act immature when theyre preteen) so don't expect them to be a blank book
as for sx expect to be as early as 12 to 15 and as late as 18 to 24, the variables for it and all the others are incalculable because of countless factors and situations, so you can't simply generalize
it seems that girls who do it early are more noticable than those who stay virgin (but still do stuff) so guys assume the general idea, also many of those girls lie about actually doing it as part of insecurity and self esteem just as guys do althroughout school years, so the numbers you see when your in school may not be the actual numbers
anyway you as guys should like girls for who they are, not for how many guys they slept with or how experienced they are, theyre not used napkins, women/girls are human beings just like the lot of you, once you all accept and embrace that you'll suddenly (probably) be a lot better as a person, if not you'll just be the douche that'll be best friends with my a**hole perv sicko pedo father, all that crap just gets in the way and its not that important anyway
(lol I'm actually contradicting myself on the last part because I'm still virgin at 21 but I'm not completely inexperienced(its private, no touchy), I've been meaning to lose it to someone I love since 16 and we got together by 18 but we still haven't done it because of some.. complications with me (androphobic, long story.. and just because I'm really scared lol)
I say it really depends on how the individual carries herself.There's not a set rule, women are all different. Some are more "easy" than others and some are more guarded than others. The sad truth of it is that you can tell who is a slut and who is not by first impression or more accurately first conversation. Although if someone proves you wrong, even better! There are always exceptions. Just because a girl dresses a certain way or flirts, you may think she's definitely sexually active, but if you get to know her individually you can tell if she lets you in easy or gets to know you first. Don't let the first impression be a rule though, LET her prove you wrong.
You should watch Wedding Crashers! Lol and you will see. A girl even lied about being a virgin because she "thought that's what guys wanted to hear" ha ha but she really wasnt.
It is not unrealisitic... it's none of your business. You are not ordering a shirt from the Sears cattologue, you are sharing your life with someone. And you don't get to decide how they live your lives before they meet you. Sorry to burst your bubble, but women aren't lying awake at night thinking "oh I must save myself for Anonymous and never have a relationship or invest myself with another man, just IN CASE he wants to keep me around. And if he doesn't, I'll accept that no man will ever love me ever again". Yeah sorry, life doesn't work that way. She's not an unworn pair of boxers, she's a woman. And she's going to do whatever the f*** she wants, and you can either suck it up, or date another woman. But don't ever expect us to wait for you. Who are you waiting for?
Short form... "never"
I never told anyone to wait for me so calm down? It's a question. You don't really need to let it upset you.
Actually, life does work that way for some men and women. Not me, not you, but there are actually people out there who think sex is reserved for marriage, and they are allowed to marry people who share their ethics and reject those as partners who don't.
Unless you are part of a culture (or sub-culture) where virgin adult women are the norm, then it isn't realistic to expect it.
Up until around 1960, women on average were married by 16-17 on average, and even much earlier than that wasn't unusual (12-13). Women having sex at young ages has always been normal, it's just that they used to be married.
Technology, women's rights (and the resulting opportunities), the need to not only complete high school, but also college and often grad school, have all come together to push back the average marriage age to 30! That's TWICE as long as it was just 50 years ago. But biology has NOT changed, and so it's completely unrealistic to expect women to be innocent virgins when they finally marry at an average age of 30. I'd guess that less than one in 100 women are virgins at that age.
Then again, back in those times, men who lived into their 40s were "old men." You are fortunate you have a much longer potential lifespan, but along with that comes social changes, such that people don't have to be in such a hurry to marry and have kids like they used to, because you have a lot more time to get it done. And like it or not, that's how modern society works.
The answer to this will depend on a persons view towards sex and relationships so you'll get a lot of different opinions. Here's mine"
If you're talking about expectations in a real long term relationship than I say you shouldn't have any expectations. You should fall in love with the girl for who she is, not what she used to be. If it is a virgin you are looking for for moral reasons, then keep in mind, everyone makes mistakes. Life is a learning process. Overtime we realize what sex means to us as an individual.
I myself think it is a very important thing to share between me and my wife someday. Does that mean I'm sexually pure? No. I haven't had sex but I've done everything else. I consider them mistakes, but honestly I learned a lot from it. And I expect the girl I someday marry to have made those same mistakes I did. As long as she has the same views on the issue as I do, that's all I care about. The past shouldn't matter. If everything is set straight in the present than the experience will be great.
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Once they get to high school you just gotta assume that every girl has sexual experience.
When she is a nun?
When she hasn't reached high school yet?
When she tells you she is.
It doesn't become unrealistic for her to be chaste. It becomes unrealistic to think that narrowing yourself to only virgins is the right path. You may very well find that whom you were called to be with has a past that needs forgiving. But she is the one. And you have to be the man who can handle that.
I will by no means turn away a girl simply because some other man stuck it in her first. But I will screen to avoid cheaters, STD carriers, drunks, druggies, God-haters, theological apostates, manipulators, gold diggers, black widows, users, con artists, thugs, lunatics, fiends, and divas.
I'll forgive a woman who wears her heart (and vagina) on her sleeve, so long as she's faithful when in a relationship and won't get me sick. But I have little patience for users and criminals. If they ignore me too long, I'll feel used, and I'll confront them. And if they don't shape up, I leave.
Chaste does not mean pure at all. You are putting too much emphasis on sex and a d*** in the hole or ass. It's overrated. No such thing as "purity" just instances where a girl has not had the chance to comfortably f***
There very much is such a thing as purity. There's also a world that is very impure, and very hostile towards those who still have their purity intact. The impure what impurity to be as "normal" as possible. And will get nasty with any who don't tow the line. The better thing to say is, there's a difference between chaste and virginal. It's possible to be chaste and not be a virgin. It means you got it once, but aren't running around constantly seeking out more.
Doubtful. Just because she isn't running around does not make her chaste. Women hardly run around for sex.by your definition f*** buddies are chaste.
A religious girl like me can be like this. So it isn't impossible.
But would never ever sleep with a guy who just want me because I'm virgin and he wants to be my first.
Disregarding minors it's never realistic to expect a girl to be chaste. Maybe if she's really religious and that's part of her beliefs.
After they're about 15 years old. The few agressive 18 year old guys at that stage talk multiple young girls into doing stuff with them and pop all their cherries before your nice ass ever gets to know them. Your best bet is not to ask a girl her history because chances are she'll lie or you won't want to know anyways.
Lol. I'm far from nice. I just love being first.
Better get 'em before the hair does then and hope you're under 18 still lol.
So you just want to sleep with virgins for the sake of it? You sick f***!
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