This guy keeps sending me naked pictures of himself after I told him to stop

[Anonymous]

I mean I'm attracted to guys but it's like...he is trying way too hard. I already told him twice to stop doing that and he promised not to do it again. So he always texts me or messages me every two days in hopes that I'll suddenly fall for him by trying to turn the conversations sexual. He sent another nude pic last night and I just ignored him after that. I've just had it he clearly cannot control himself. I never asked for naked pictures in the first place and never even gave I hint that I wanted one. I don't even know him that well I just met him at a music event and we kept in touch. He also expects that I send him naked or sexy pictures. Has this happened to anyone before? I'm about to go off on him and tell him it's sexual harassment.

[Anonymous]

what women won't tell you is that if a man sends naked pictures of himself, even if she WAS attracted to him, now she's not.

Because he sent naked pictures.

Funny how that works.

[Opinion Owner]

And yet women are supposedly just as interested in sex as men are.

[Asker]

You know that's true. I was somewhat attracted to him and he ruined his chances. He comes off way too full of himself and has these irrational expectations. I do enjoy sex though... I just don't want it with him. I'm sure he's doing this to a lot of girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Guys don't get turned off by naked pictures of girls. Girls do Yet I'm force-fed this belief that women enjoy sex as much as men.

[temptationfalls]

As soon as the conversation starts turning sexual then stop replying. Keep doing it until he gets the hint or you get sick of it and stop replying to him all together.

[prophecy]

how unappreciative can you be?

i mean really, instead of sending him your own naked pic as a thank you you're complaining here.

[Asker]

I never wanted them in the first place. I don't even like him or want him in that way so it's not unappreciative.

[Aerith7]

She doesn't have to send him anything, she did not ask or want the pics at all. And just because a guy sends pictures willingly does not mean women have to do the same. Especially with a guy she does not know well.

[Anonymous]

I think if he sends you another unwanted picture you should tell him its sexual harassment. Especially since you have already asked him to stop.