What would you say if your girlfriend wanted to try fisting?

Guys what would you say if your girlfriend wanted to try fisting? I'm kinda interested in trying it but I'm worried my boyfriend would think its weird... How would I bring it up/tell him?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. I would love the idea of fisting though I've never done it before (but I've extensively read about how to do it a long time ago). I'd do it only when my girl asks me to cause I know she's interested. Personally I won't take the initiative. I'd think it's a great idea if she asked me.

    2. Bring up the topic just as you'd bring up any other topic regarding sex. You are concerned cause you 'think' it's weird since it's not practiced commonly. Take that idea off your mind and ask, you'll be at ease.

    3. But get him to learn how to fist. Hygiene, trimmed finger nails etc are a must there.

  • I'd be up for it. If you two ever watch p*rn together pick one out where there's a fisting scene or something and say that looks like it'd feel good or looks fun or something like that.

    • Thats how i brought it up with my husband. i saw a lot of it in movies and talked to a lot of people who had tried it when i was in Europe when i traveled the world in my early 20s.. took until i was 32 before i tried it had masturbated with 4 fingers often enough before hubby and i got serious about get his hand inside me

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm only 20 but I have been in to fisting for a while only done it a few times and with girls because they have smaller hands lol, my ex boyfriend fisted me once but could only just fit his hand, it's such an intense feeling I wish I got the opportunity to do it more often it's awkward trying to do it to myself

  • Tell him you will go slow and start with only a single finger, and you will use lots of lube, as you get extra fingers in him he will start to relax and enjoy it more. And the reward will be the best orgasm he has ever had. Good luck

  • I've been fisting for about 2.5 years i only wish i had tried it earlier in my life like in my early 20s . So amazing i love it.

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  • To be honest I wouldn't be interested

  • She isn't gonna be fisting me!

    I'd do her if she wanted though. A thumb knuckle g spot massage might be fun for her.

  • Don't go in with 'i want you to fist me'.

    Start with the usual foreplay then just keep telling him to add another finger, then another, more more more!!! 😀 He'll be so turned on its unreal

  • I would love it just bring it up next time he's fingering you just when he puts couple fingers in ask him put more then say wonder could your fist fit but use plenty of lube

  • id try fisting a girl

  • If she asked me that I would be all like link

  • yeah no thanks

  • The best way is for you to grab his hand and slide his finger in you. You will see.

  • I'm gross so
    ~Mr Bails Extraordinaire

  • as his fingering you ask him to put another finger in and sau OMG the stretch feels good and tell him when it feels i can take it
    try another finger and really hump his hand no guy will say no to going further

  • that's hot. let me put it this way, pretty much anything you want to try sexually, guys will be willing to do...

  • yes let me lube my hand

  • Basically just keep telling him "more" as he does, he shouldn't stop

  • I would love to do it.

  • My girlfriend and I take turns fisting each other. And its great.

  • Do it.

  • I've done it a few times.

  • That would be a dream come true

  • I would grab the lube.

  • i'd say "when ya wanna do it?" :D

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