Is it too soon to send my new boyfriend naked pictures of myself?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have only been dating about a week now and today is his birthday but I am out of town for work. He Turns 24 today and I am 25 years old. I gave him his birthday present before I left to go out of town but I thought I would do something special for him today by sending him a few pictures. I took about 5 nude pictures just now a few of them close ups of everything and one full frontal in the mirror and one just in my thongs and bra. I would like to send them to him for his birthday but I am debating whether or not it is too soon. We've only been dating about a week and he has never seen me naked yet nor has seen pictures of me so I thought it would be a nice surprise for him By not telling him I took them and just send it to him. Do you think it is too soon or should I not worry about it and send it to him?

[Sekrett]

No no no no NO. How many times do I as a guy have to say this. Please please please listen to me and I mean all girls. If you don't want anything ending up on the internet you wouln't like. Then do not send it. Believe me when things go sour guys become a$$ wipes and low lives, doesn't matter how much they loved that person. There are get back at your ex websites specifically for this, where guys put their nude pics too humiliate them, and get back at them. Few months ago women were suing these sites, where there ex's posted these nudes.

All girls imagine their guys wouldn't do that, but believe me they do. When your emotional, not of sound mind, pi$$ed, angry etc etc, no idea what that person would do. Last year I read a teacher committed suicide because her Boyfriend who was a soldier posted her nude pics online.

So here it is again. If you wouln't be bothered by your pics ending up online or worry about what others would say. Then by all means go ahead. But my advise to all women don't send em. Week is way too soon to know a person, and send nudes anyway.

[sovetskii13]

Only a week? Absolutely not. In fact, never send nude pictires of yourself to anyone online. You have no idea where that picture might end up. Don't do it. If he ever asks for one, or asks why you wouldn't send him one, tell him that it's too risky. Once a nude picture of you is online, it can go from one place to another, and it will stay online forever. It might end up in front of your future boss, coworker, or even your parents. Don't do it.

[Asker]

If I did send them it would not be online it would be through a text message.

[jennydne]

Nooo! Don't send them ! Way too soon! Especially if he hasn't even seen you naked yet. If you want to send him something sexy, fine , but leave a little something to the imagination, that also shows you as being classy. Don't give him everything all at once - tease him ! ;) And then when you are together again, by all means - get naked if you want !

[Asker]

Ya I like that idea. Maybe I'll just send him some underwear shots for now.

[iPood]

Don't send them yet. A tasteful panty/bra photo, maybe, but if he hasn't seen you naked in person then don't send it to him in pictures

[bobair]

Stick to panties... full closeup nudes are actually a turn off... mostly because they're too graphic. Guys prefer a little mystery and tease.

Plus the relationship is WAY too new before you can trust some dude with nudes.

Tease him to please him.

:)

~ Robby

[palek]

As a trained psychologist I very rarely offer an opinion on such things to non-patients. However; if you will forward the pictures in question to my attention I'll review them and render an opinion.

[CatholicVirginia]

Please never leave this website. You provide me with far too much amusement.

[palek]

What a nice thing to say! ; - )

[tadpole25]

rule of thumb, send nothing that you don't want his friends to see

[jacquesvol]

After a week is very soon indeed.

Be smart and take care to chose pics where your face isn't visible ;-)

[frenchy21]

all answers below are right

[Anonymous]

I'd have LOVED that on my 24th! If you want an opinion on the pics, post them to reddit!