Guys, I don't know what to do. My boyfriend can't come with the condom on. And were not always gonna have sex with it off, because that's a huge risk. So, what can I do to help him come? I got on top and he said it felt amazing, but he couldn't come from it.
It's not all that unusual for a guy to have trouble reaching orgasm with a condom. They reduce sensitivity for him. If you aren't able to use another form of birth control, you might have to improvise and provide him with other types of stimulation. You could always remove the condom and finish him off orally or with a hand job. You could also use a small amount of lube between your breasts and let him pleasure himself between them. Guys love that. Be creative and use your imagination. There's a lot of fun to be had outside of standard intercourse!
I had sex the other day and had the same problem...I got condoms from my health center at school...I don't know if it was just the type of condom, but it was too small and I had trouble purring it on (probably shouldn't have used it)...anyways, I think because it was too tight, it decreased sensitivity and I didn't orgasm...no idea why. Although, I have orgasmed a lot of times before in a condom...My suggestion is go try different kinds. they have ultra thin types which is what he may need...You should get the problem addressed...sex isn't THAT fun if you can't finish it
If a condom is your only choice you will just have to try different things maybe having some porn on or what works for me when I'm having a hard time getting off is my girlfriend telling me a dirty story in my ear while she's doing me. That usually takes care of the problem pretty quickly.
Is this a committed relationship? Have you both been tested? You could try other sources of birth control if that is the case or why not try just finishing him off with your hands or something. Try one of those condoms that are like skin...I am sure that they cost more but, if it is so important that he ejaculate while he is inside than that is something to take a look at then. Hope that helps ya!