Why do you think so many people have rape fantasies?

I've read a lot of answers from girls on this site admitting they have rape fantasies. A guy just answered a question I asked about fantasies and he admitted he had fantasized about raping before but won't ever do it in real life. I've had rape fantasies before and I bet other guys get them but won't admit it because we don't want everybody we know to think we're a rapist. Why would women fantasize about being raped? Why would guys fantasize about raping?
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The few times rape entered my mind it made me feel ashamed and sick. I don't want those thoughts but they happened anyways. Why would our brain have thoughts like that even if we don't want it in real life?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • some guys would fantasize about it and some would actually rape, whether intentionally or not, some girls would also fantasize about it but I'm pretty sure all don't want to actually be raped unless they already were

    i never had any fantasy like that.. but I'm a bit different since I got near-raped twice (im not gonna go over the long story because so many rape topics are already floating with it), so anyway I would never think about it and hate it entirely, I'm not the submissive or dominant sort but many girls are submissive, many guys are also more dominant, I think its gender related, most times it just spawns fantasies and fetish which is good, but sometimes those get twisted so badly and the person ends up doing it..

    kind hearts can be just as easily corrupted, its not entirely impossible but I'd like to think it is because its such a horrible concept.. I don't ever wanna have nightmares of my boyfriend being like that.. I'm already androphobic so if it happens again especially if its him I would just break and give up.. suicides always been at the lurking deep in my head so it might surface again if I lose it like that especially if I get pregnant..

    anyway I don't wanna get depressed so

    imma leave it at that, goodluck QA :)

  • All I can see is that the men doing this love that dominant role.

    They enjoy doing whatever they want and being in complete control.

    I don't think a woman actually fantasizes about being raped because all in reality it's a horrible thing.But she enjoys pleasing her man, and being submissive.

    • @update: do it in role play. Role play is meant for you to welcome those fantasies. Has long has you know rape isn't OK in real life, you shouldn't feel strange about it.

    • I have heard three girls tell me they fantasize about being raped by a complete stranger. But they were very clear that it works only as a fantasy - they would not be keen on it happening in reality.

    • Interesting, I just can't picture a woman fantasizing about that on her own but it does happen.

  • I don't really fantasy about being raped per say but I do like the idea of being ravished by a boyfriend/husband and to be completely dominated.

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  • rape was just how we procreated for the first ten billion or so years of humanity. It's hard to imagine that there wouldn't be some residual instinctive longing for it.

    • I don't think we've been here for ten billion years. I'm not a bible thumper so don't think that has anything to do with my questioning. I don't even believe Jesus was an individual that existed. I don't believe in that evolution bullsh*t either. There is still no direct link between us and the monkey no matter how bad scientists and those with an agenda wish it were true.

    • of course there is a direct link. you not understanding something doesn't invalidate its existence.

    • Evolution exists among us humans, I don't doubt that. There is a difference between slowly evolving primary characteristics and completly morphing into another animal. There are many holes in the evolution theory. We share much DNA with chimps but that doesn't mean we evolved from them. Many things in this world share the same DNA and characteristics

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  • I don't know too many girls that have this fantasy to be honest. But I would assume its because of dominance.