If you girlfriend cried after sex, what would you be thinking?

[Anonymous]

I got kind of emotional/teared up after having sex with my boyfriend. We've been together for 2 years and have been sexually activity for a while. I just got really emotional randomly afterwards. When he asked me what's wrong, I just said nothing, I don't know why I'm crying. But the truth is (I was just too shy to say it) I just care about him so much that it made me emotional to simply be with him. Is that weird? Does he think I'm weird for crying afterward (not like it was our first time or anything) so does it seem weird? He didn't really act much different, but I think that threw him off a bit. Guys, what would you be thinking if your girlfriend cried after sex with you randomly?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't think she was weird for crying, but I would be a little worried that maybe she felt I had pressured her into having sex, before she was ready. Or if she had past sexual abuse, having sex with me might have brought up some bad feelings from that. You might want to let him know that you are okay. He might be more concerned then he is letting on, but doesn't want to pressure you into talking about it.

[Anonymous]

It happened to me once, and threw me offbalance at that time.

Later I realised: it was just hormones, and she wasn't in control of it!

[Ladydi1980]

Tell him the truth, otherwise he might understand something different. He won´t reject you for that.

[ming13]

You could be crying as a way to express how much you love him and the sex, people react differently and crying is not always about being sad, you can cry when happy too.

[ming13]

if you have had a bad experience in the past tell him, if he loves you he should be honoured that you opened up, I would respect a girl for being honest, but try not to let it interfere with your relationship .

[Clock]

I'll feel that I used her only as a sexual object. Though this never happened to me.

[asianhunk]

i'll feel terribly bad, I feel I am taking advantage of her for using her body.

[dolfan13]

That I just did something terribly wrong. And Awkwardly ask what's up.

[Anonymous]

If my girlfriend starts crying, I would always think that it must be that we did something which is detrimental to her belief.

[Anonymous]

It would make me feel like a rapest..

[Anonymous]

wow, that's bad. he probably thinks you're crying because he is unable to satisfy you. you're frustrated because you can't orgasm.