Why do women like violence so much?

[CasaNorba]

after watching this video

link

my curiosity sky rocket it.

anyways, what exactly does violence do for women that turns them on so much? couple of years ago I though only crazy women with traumatized and disturbed past would have these so called raped fantasies, but now judging from my experience and friends experiences I have notice that large majority of women do have these rape fantasies and fetishism. yet they talk about how they hate violence, etc

what exactly am I missing here?

[renogaza]

many girls are are against voilence and dislike rape fantasies, many girls also like voilence, many girls are also into being sexually submissive, and some of them also have fantasies or fetishes of fake/rape but most women don't actually wanna get raped in reality, the point of a fantasy is that it remains a fantasy

how is violence even related? I don't see the connection.

im sure plenty of guys have rape fantasies too, but unlike girls some guys would actually do it since they can't get preggo or lose their education or future, fortunately they can't run from the law forever.. even if it is broken and weak..

(they should enforce death penalty on rapists/murderers, they shouldn't have themis at the courts doorstep if they can't even do that, unlike them themis actually has balls and doesn't give a damn about excuses and lies, actions clearly speak louder than words and equal suffering should be met for the crime done therefore death by electric chair with 10 million volts for one hour/gas chamber with sulfuric acid gas.. both while in forced life support, prison is like heaven to scum like them..)

"i thought that only crazy women with traumatized and disturbed past would have these so called rape fantasies"

(2x rape trauma case - androphobic)..

may as well say it since anon answers aren't allowed

what part of trauma don't you understand? the nightmares? the total psychological breakdown? the suicidal depression? the social/sexual anxiety/phobia? (even towards my bf) or the massive murderous intent towards the rapists?.. how can you even consider that someone would ever develop a fantasy for it after being raped? I hope for your sake that it was meant as a joke..

im lucky I'm dealing with it better than most cases, many aren't as lucky to reintegrate into society without being forced into extended psychiatric therapy and mind altering drugs.. nobody ever goes back right from that stupid crap

1 starred you for the offensive question and for not allowing anon answers, reported for offensive content.

[renogaza]

not watching that vid either, that's the very last thing I ever wanna see.. I'm not gonna ruin my day for your damn question

[Cryostatic]

Because fantasies are safe. In their fantasies, a "rape" is about submission and giving up control, not violence. There's also an element of released responsibility. Society practically demonizes women who enjoy sex, and so "rape" takes the responsibility out of their hands.

Anyway, in fantasies, the "rapist" is always desireable and the sex is always amazing and wanted in the first place. In your fantasies, everything happens the way you want it to, and you have complete control. It's a fantasy.

A real rape is painful, dehumanizing and traumatizing, both during and after. No woman wants to actually be raped.

[maiez]

first of all women don't all like violence.

There is fact that women when raped have more chance of orgasm because of the thrill.

Violence isn't good anyways and no one should like it, I know girls who like watching violent movies for excitement, but I don't think they would actually like it happening to them.