Things only become degrading if you ascribe negative connotations to them. Given the right setting, going down on a girl, or opening the door for her, could be made into something degrading. It all comes down to the attitude factor. Personally I don't enjoy acts of sexual degradation; but I don't see how the ones you describe automatically fall into that category either. I hardly think either of them describes male dominance because these are things that women do with other women. I believe that a lot of the negative stereotypes that are ascribed to these acts are a throw back to more conservative days where sex was something one did to make children and not something to necessarily be enjoyed.
In my book both are disgusting and something NOT happening in my bed or any bed I am in! I would consider a facial more humiliating and degrading only because it is something you are applying to a persons body. Anal is just a plain disgusting act!
I guess you can see facial as being degrading, however I don't think anal is at all. Anal is just disgusting.
If they are okay with it, then it isn't degrading at all. Any sexual act can be seen as degrading by someone that doesn't like it. I don't want someone to pee on me. I would find that degrading. If another guy asks his woman to pee on him, then that is not degrading to him. It just depends on the person in question.
what is the cause and what is the effect? i don't like someone to pee on me because I find it degrading or i think beeing peed on is degading that's why I don't like it it's not the same.
If don't like something, and they try to force me to do it, then it becomes degrading. It is the act of taking away a persons power that is degrading. Someone might not mind eating something that fell on the floor, but if someone threw something on the ground, and forced them to eat it, then it would be very degrading. It is about power and control.
Once upon a time there were countries eg singapore banned oral sex aka blow job,assuming those days it was solely a male pleasure thing and considered sort of abusing women.And now blow job is even traded as a currency for corruption in singapore.Perceptions are a function of time.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If done with the right person and you have trust and respect and it's all just in fun, I don't see either as being humiliating or degrading. Although I wouldn't get anything out of a facial... just a mess.
I chose facial but I think they are both degrading.
I don't think its humiliating or degrading if she's into it.
sure if she agrees to them it means she doesn't find it dgrading and humiliating,but my question is about girls who don't do that
Nothing is humiliating if you choose to do it an enjoy it
neither are humiliating or degrading unless you hate men
Anal! I'm not keen on either, but anything anal is off limits with me, I've never tried it and never will!
Neither if she wants to do them
I find facials to be more about the demeaning aspect (when I hear guys describe why they like to do it) and that anal is more about how it physically feels and the taboo of trying something that's supposed to be X-Rated.
I don't think either is humiliating or degrading if there's trust and respect between the two people involved.
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