Why are many attractive Western women so psychotic?

[Anonymous]

They clearly abuse their gender privileges, they blame men for everything, make men do everything, and among other things. I have even heard of, in extreme cases, instances where a woman cheated on their fiance and even though it was their conscious decision to do so, she still wasn't able to take the blame for it or admit she was wrong, and I only bring this up because of the way many attractive women behave. Similar outcomes wouldn't surprise me coming from other women. All they want to do is go dancing and out to clubs and follow everything that society says they should be doing. Women are all super mainstream when it comes to their social lives and entertainment, save for a few rare exceptions, and those girls that are rare exceptions are AWESOME girls that any man would be lucky to have. Why don't they actually get some hobbies for themselves and develop their own individuality? It would really truly benefit them in every way. These are all reasons why I dislike the state of quality in our women in these current times. They have no personality, integrity, are frequently bitchy, and just aren't all that different from each other. A lot of them put on and use that snobby, hot bitch voice that is incredibly annoying, no it is not cute. Hell, if you're in school and you take the time to notice, they even all have the same bubbly handwriting! It's almost as if women these days are robots, because half of the time I wonder what's going through their heads because it never makes any lick of sense and I question how any intelligent, living being could possibly think in the way that they do. Sorry, but I am not trying to sound like misogynistic rather I feel that these are genuine concerns to be had about today's women. It's hard enough to find a good girl as it is, but today's young women are only making it more difficult in the way that they're acting and coming across.

[washize]

Lol you've never been to China, Since there are More men than women, the women get more say in How they want men to behave in order to choose them.

Anyways, American men complain just as much and Blame women just as much.

IF you blame the opposite sex for your issues and are ALWAYS SINGLE, The issue is with you MEN and WOMEN constantly complaining.

Not getting your way all of the time, and having someone put expectations on you Isn't oppression and it isn't sexism.

Women are human beings, as are Men.

Just because a woman doesn't want to raise your family, take care of your home, and help you build you build your career. Until you get bored with her and dump her for someone younger, and leave her with nothing, Doesn't mean she's "bitchy" or spoiled.

Just because a man doesn't want to pay for you to sit on your bum and eat all day while you sleep with the Hawt Gardener doesn't mean that he's lazy or sexist.

You men and women need to tone your Ego's down and learn that the world and the opposite sex DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOUR NEEDS AND HOW YOU THINK THEY SHOULD TEND TO YOUR DESIRES.

And even if A man or a woman is "bitchy", "sleazy" and only cares about themselves. WHO CARES? They have a right to be that way, and do what ever the HECK they want. If it bothers you so much stay away from them.

No man or woman is sitting in a corner and crying because some self entitled narcissistic person is Posting their demands and their preferences on the internet and How much they hate the Freedoms that the opposite sex expresses.

You know what I find really funny? Is that these Men and Women that these self entitled narcissistic and controlling people find so unattractive, AREN'T THE ONES WHO ARE SINGLE OR LONELY.

Go figure.

[Anonymous]

For every one of these women you mention, there are an equal number of "bros" in the clubs wearing snapbacks, taking shots and shorting Adderall until they can't think and yelling "YOLO" too. You just don't notice because you aren't trying to date guys.

The good thing is, the internet makes it easier to for people who actually think to find interesting things to do. Start going to social events outside the mainstream ... they're everywhere, if you start looking. I have some friends who are really into anime, some who are into rockabilly counterculture, some who are into poetry, some who are into math clubs, etc... They always find a group of like-minded people to hang with.

Finding the right partner is always a bitch. But bitching about it doesn't really make it easier, even if it makes you feel good for a little while.

[Asker]

There really are tons of guys like that too, I fully agree.

[Opinion Owner]

So find the kind of people you find to be your people. They've gotta be out there. I know some really unique people who have found their circle...

[Anonymous]

I understand your frustration...I too am appalled by certain women. BUT I am also appalled by certain MEN. To me, I don't judge a collective group based on their actions (i.e. these American women are bitchy cheaters so all westernized women must be that way). I judge the individual...male and female alike.

[Asker]

Thank you for seeing the truth. Some of these girls are just further illustrating my point. "Oh me? There's nothing wrong with ME?" - typical American girl. They might not even say it in that same way, but there's always an excuse with some girls.

[celestialdaeva]

Reading comprehension fail, QA. Tell me again about how unintelligent women are

[washize]

@Question asker- You have a problem. You accuse ALL western women of being the same way. But because you have a penis, ALL men are collectively different And are innocent little angles, under the evil rule and oppression of psycho women Holding the power over the access to their Evil western Vagina's that you want! Dude you have a problem, Everyone is saying that MEN AND WOMEN are different. YOU'RE the one with the problem. You're the one who obviously has issues with dating and women.

[Asker]

Where did I ever say ALL women? I said SOME.

[kethel]

Groups of people can sometimes act like individual people... What I mean is that, basically, now that women are liberated in the western world, they are, as a group, exploring their world through the eyes of teenagers. And that's exactly how most of them act. It's OK when they actually ARE teenagers, or even in their 20s... but the vile, disgusting phenomenon known as "Cougars" makes me barf x_x Nothing more disgusting than a 60+ year old woman hopped up on prozac, spooge target tatted on her lower back, too much fake tan, paint-roller applied make-up, etc. trying to hit on dudes like they're still 20.

[celestialdaeva]

Now that women are liberated? Like you're old enough to remember the good ole days? You are just as immature as the women you disparage. Worse, actually, since you applied your judgments to ALL women.

[kethel]

Heard of history books? :p I specifically explained my position, I'm sorry you weren't able to pick up on it, and would instead rather see offense where there is none. It must suck to be so emotional and angry all the time. Glad I don't have to deal with that, being a guy and all =)

[celestialdaeva]

Lol being a guy doesn't make you right. Exhibit A, your answer. Exhibit B, your comment. You obviously know nothing about what it means for a woman to be liberated.

[kethel]

Again, you lack the reading comprehension to understand what I'm saying. Did you finish high school? Do you ever read books? I spoke of liberated women as a group, not as individuals. Again, stop being so angry, aggressive, and looking for fights where there are none. That's half the problem with women who act like teenagers... lol.

[celestialdaeva]

The whole purpose of the website is to debate answers to questions. What are you here for if you don't want that? Re: your accusations about my limited education and lackluster reading ability. No, dude. I dropped out of school in 4th grade. Just got too hard. You?

[martyfellow]

Amen, borther, they play things both ways as much as they can, and line up behind the rich men in any difficult or confrontational situation. A lot of guys feel as you do, that they're conformists and don't have personal integrity to any degree.

You can never turn yur back on them...'

[Kadiboma]

WOW, and you say you love women? Doesn't sound much like it. Maybe a lot of women are 'psychotic' towards men because they've been screwed over and hurt and messed about by so many! There's usually a reason.

[Asker]

But what about the good men in this world? Most women don't really give them a shot now do they? Then guess what, they go back and date the same kind of men that are terrible for them.

[Kadiboma]

Women don't choose the same men by choice, it's an unexplainable thing that happens. You get with a guy, he seems so sweet and nice and different... then you realize he's just like the last one and you get hurt all over again!

[Asker]

It's some kind of conspiracy then because whenever you have a guy that's actually REALLY different, nice and respectful, and won't ever actually change that later on in a relationship, he is always blown off or put on some sort of emotional back burner but will never actually get a date. So what's up with that?

[Kadiboma]

Women are hurt by men WAY more than men are hurt by women. We have the right to protect ourselves. Men in general should behave better towards us, and then the genuinely nice ones wouldn't get overlooked.

[celestialdaeva]

Dude, stop being attracted to stuck up narcissistic bitches and you suddenly won't think "all" women are this way. I'm not even going to argue about how wrong your premises are because you already know, otherwise you wouldn't have added that qualifying update.

PS: You're blaming women for causing all these problems, and one of the things you bitch about is that they blame men for sh*t. Cute irony, right?

[Asker]

I'm not one of those men plain and simple so my rant isn't exactly hypocritical. I know many men are like this too, but I am one of few that am not. Also how am I to simply "stop being attracted" to the pretty girls. That's not really possible. They at least have the ability to chose whether or not they're going to be a good person or not. Men too, that's what I chose, to be a good person.

[celestialdaeva]

What? You're not one of WHAT men? I said nothing about any type of man. Not all pretty girls have the same type of personality. If you think they do, then you are actually attracted to that personality and not just to their facial symmetry or whatever.

[celestialdaeva]

Also? I think it is statistically likely that the reason you think all women are bitchy is because your a misogynistic douche bag with a propensity to piss them off. Women tend not to sport their fun playful sides for such blatant a**holes. Whoops, there I go being a bitch again. Must be because I, as a woman in this society, am flawed and of low quality. Couldn't possibly be a response to something YOU said or did. That might mean YOU are flawed. That's simply not possible.

[Asker]

I do not hate women nor do I walk around speaking or acting like this (for some reason you seem to have this impression). I am nothing but nice and respectful of all people. It's just that I have seen enough to collect and display a bit of observable knowledge on this forum. I never once said or implied that I was perfect either, (not sure where you got this impession either). I don't look for hook ups or to manipulate women into liking me so I at least have room to present this argument.

[Sexydncr]

Oh so YOU can say you are one if the few men who isn't that way but when women do we're "making up excuses". Yes in being bitchy, because you're a stupid self-righteous a**hole. Why do women go out to clubs? Because men do! All guys have the same crappy handwriting and fake swagger and cocky attitudes! So if you want to stereotype one gender you have to do the same for the other.

[celestialdaeva]

QA - weakest claim ever. Just admit you're a pig instead of just oinking and rolling in mud while claiming to be a noble steed.

[Asker]

Thanks for proving my point. I'm done here.

[caligirl3]

Oh my god and men don't cheat? or go clubbing?

[Asker]

Sure many of them do too, but this question isn't about men. I don't cheat or go clubbing and half the time I wonder if those are reasons contributing to why I have never been able to attract a decent looking girl.

[caligirl3]

I don't do that either and all the guys I know love the whole club scene and think being wanted by more then one girl is very appealing. I haven't known any girls that likes clubbing more or like cheating.

[Asker]

That's exactly my point, all girls seem to "know" or go after are guys that go clubbing or guys that ultimately cheat on them. A guy like me isn't even on most girl's radar. There's no reason for me not to be, but that's just how it is. It's like I'm not cool enough for most girls and that's unfair because they don't even know me or give me a chance, and I'm speaking for just about every single guy that's like me!

[caligirl3]

Don't say all girl's. Caus I said guys I know not guys I have been with or liked. The guys that I was romantically involved with did party with their friends but never cheated and thry were really shy.

[Asker]

Maybe that was wrong of me to say, but it really feels like all girls are like this, the attractive ones at least. Only unattractive girls ever seem to appreciate and like me for the way I am but what good is that if I'm not into them? The hot girls only seem to like hanging out with tools that get drunk and go to clubs to hit on other girls.

[caligirl3]

looks has nothing to do with how real you are, if you feel the ones you want are living a life you don't like then that's a problem cause most people won't change for someone else, at least not forever. If girls that you say you think is unattractive but are nice and like home life then what's stopping you for being with one of them?

[Asker]

Ummm they're not attractive?

[caligirl3]

you have way too many deal breakers, I think that's why you haven't found anyone

[Cryostatic]

I don't know. I'm one of the lucky ones, I guess.

My girlfriend's fun to be around, is very laid back, looks and dresses well without being a fashion whore, and loves listening to death metal.

But then, thinking about it, I really don't know very many women who fit your description. Maybe two of them. Most of the girls I've known are pretty cool chicks.

[madhatters4]

what research have you performed to make some a wide sweeping generalization of about 150,000,000 people?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

bitter, party of one - your table is ready.

[katkaintkwit]

-_- jaded...

[dwiller943]

I'm only psychotic, because I was abused since I was basically conceived.

[rcljr]

All men are jerks, all women are psychotic.
Kurt Vonnegut.

[holly916]

Because all guys act like total individuals all the time, suffice it to say most PEOPLE follow what is mainstream, that's why it's called mainstream.

[Anonymous]

From the sounds of it you haven't gotten to really know a lot of these women. From first glance a lot of people I meet are just as you describe, but once you get to know them even my most bubble headed people are actually fascinating, you just have to ask the right questions. Try not to use anecdotal evidence to stereotype. The people who act out, misbehave, and are in general obnoxious as you describe are the ones who get noticed and get attention. The people who don't behave in that matter aren't noticed because it is the norm that no one makes a big deal about.

[Asker]

So how do you get these people to crack because all of these girls are so defensive and cold it's not even fun to start a conversation with them, much less try to carry one on? If someone isn't mutually interested in talking to me, then I'm just not going to put in the effort. It's that simple.

[Opinion Owner]

I am just saying go into conversations with an open mind.

[Asker]

You are by default if you're initiating. If the other person is closed off completely, that's not your fault.

[Opinion Owner]

But think about why they might be closed off. Most people don't aim to act bitchy towards others and they do not always realize the way others might perceive their behavior. Just try not to take other people's behavior too personally.

[Anonymous]

Get a life loser other than generalizing half the population in this country. You haven't met all western women so you can't generalize.