LADIES: What if your boyfriend "stole" a pair of your panties?

[Anonymous]

I guess this is a little fetish I have... Even though, I do not have an urge to smell my girlfriend's panties all the time. I did it once, and it had no odor whatsoever! And that was after she was wearing them all day... Still, I really love her panties, and I want a pair of them! To keep in my nightstand or wherever I choose to hide them. I could just straight up ask her, "can I have a pair of your panties?" but I don't think that's too erotic. I have a desire to "steal" a pair of them. Like, when she stays with me one weekend, if she brings a change of underwear, I'll steal one pair before she leaves on Sunday. Then if she asks me what happened to them, I'd be like, "oh, idk... they must've gotten lost." Would you be extremely pissed? Furious? Would you be really grossed out? Would you be upset because they cost so much? I mean, I spend plenty money on her anyway... Money is no issue for me. Or, are you just super attached to your underwear? Like, you find a nice pair, and you want to always keep them? Like, I imagine a girl would be really pissed if her favorite pair of shoes got ruined or lost. How would you react? Thank you!

[Anonymous]

I don't think this is all that unusual. I have had boyfriends ask me for my panties before.. .one of them was always on the road for work and another one lived a town over from me, so we didn't see each other as much as we'd have liked. Another was in the military and got deployed. They were just like, "hey, can I have those?"- pointing to my panties. (The first time I said, "okay... I'll give them to you after I do laundry." And he looked at me like I was a dumbass and said that would ruin the whole point of having them, if I washed them first. I thought maybe he wanted to try them on or something... )

When the on-the-road guy came home from working, he'd give me my drawers back and I'd fork over another pair. I don't think I did that with the next-town-over guy. When we broke up he gave them back and I was glad to see them. The military guy went career and I didn't want to leave my family, so we broke up amiably and he told me I was never getting my panties back- and I told him to keep them with my compliments and best wishes. He also said that a LOT of guys in his unit had a pair of their wives/girlfriends' panties with them, too.

I don't think I'd begrudge my fella a "stolen" pair of panties as long as there actually IS a relationship happening (and he didn't just swipe my drawers from the laundry while he happened to be at my house, because that's f***ing creepy). I think it's sweet, actually. Sort of. But don't steal a BUNCH of her panties, that's f*cked up, and if she ASKS you if you know where her panties are then you have to 'fess up because otherwise it might make her nuts not knowing here her underwear is.

Now if you start trying to wear her SHOES, that might be a problem...

[Anonymous]

happened to me haha. my boyfriend stole two pairs of mine because he just loved it. I think its sexy as hell that he's that hooked to them ha ha and for me it just means I get to go to victorias secret and shop for more so I'm not complaining! :) lol

[Asker]

What a relief! Thanks! I hope to get more answers like this... but of course I appreciate any kind of honestly from ladies. :) Yea, I feel the same way as your bf! I don't really want to smell them or wear them or anything. I just love you in them and I want a pair so I just feel good about how I have a pair of yours! So, did you say anything to him? hehe

[Opinion Owner]

i remember him asking me if he thought it was weird that he wanted to keep them but I told him its hot and he has a little "souvenir" if he ever gets hot and bothered when I'm not around ha ha I think guys like you and him just like the idea of having them there because it reminds you of the girl you like and it gets you excited and the fact that you have them is a little naughty and sexy :)

[Asker]

Yes, exactly! Exactly!

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for best answer :) :)

[Sexydncr]

Haha I have no problem with this I think it's hot. When I'm in a relationship I usually take a guy's hoodie or pair of sweatpants or something because it smells like them. If I were her I'd rather you ask and not take my absolute favorite pair... but it's not a huge deal.

[lala-193]

i would be annoyed, mainly because panties tend to be the limiting factor that determine when you have to do laundry. I feel like I always need more panties. I wouldn't be particularly upset though, especially if I eventually got them back

[novemberbaby]

haha I don't think it's weird for him to have a pair of my panties, if he had like a smelling-worn-panites fetish... that'd be weird. But he wouldn't have to steal em, just ask lulz :)

[Cottoncandydreams]

Wait so you are keeping my panties?

Give me my draws back boy! x)

Well if I discovered this I would probably be like wtf? And get revenge and steal some of his undergarments.

Would I be pissed? No

Would I be grossed out? a little

I don't spend much on underwear so nah not really.

This can be quite sexy if done in a nice non creeper way.

[Skibummt]

Not weird at all. My boyfriend travels a lot for work and other obligations. He always leaves me with a pair of his briefs and I always sneak a pair of dirty panties into his bag. We both sleep with them at night. I think it's really sexy he likes falling asleep smelling them.

[whome85]

I have asked girls after we have sex if I could keep their panties. Most say yes. And a couple of times, I have picked the girls panties up and just told her that I was keeping them. They didn't mind. This is just like souvenirs for me. I can go look at them and remember the sex

[Anonymous]

lol you can just ask her. my boyfriend did, I wasn't grossed out, I thought it was hot. I'd just be weirded out if he literally stole them, like I couldn't find them and one day randomly found them in his room. that would be disturbing. just be like "baby you should give me a pair of them" or something