What are some kinky ideas for the bedroom?

[Anonymous]

No, I do not mean stuff like "look at him whilst giving oral" or whatever. I mean REALLY kinky. I'm currently seeing a guy who I have incredible sexual compatibility with - he's very open minded and a lot of fun. He's definitely more experienced and done a lot more, so I want to think of something that he may not have done before. One idea I have is to use ice - trace it over his body, suck on it to cool my mouth and give him oral, etc. Another idea is to try analingus on him I have a feeling he will respond well to both these things. Bondage and blindfolding is an obvious choice as well. However, I want more ideas. Guys, please tell me things girls have done for you, or you'd like done to you, that are a little unconventional. Girls, any things you've tried that have driven a man crazy? Thanks!

[Abhijit3101]

There are many things known to most of us like biting or nibbling, scratching, licking, rough sex, ride on top of him, doggy-style, handcuffs or tied up, role play, 69, reverse cowgirl, rub his testicles, ******** and so on. What always work is - be spontaneous, take control, let it flow natural do not force it. Here are some crazy ideas that will do wonders for you. Try let him saw just a not very clear picture of any part of (your or his) body, and then let him do whatever he wants with that part he just look a picture of. If he is in the shower, join him! Challenge him to stay quiet no matter what you do to him, and do something he might have not thought off. Ask him to sit naked on a kitchen chair, and then strut out wearing nothing. Throughout the day, send your guy naughty one-word texts. By the end of the day, he will have a message that spells out exactly what you are going to do to him that night. If you are on top, ask him keep absolutely still, and instead of moving up and down, move in a circular motion, every few rounds alternate between clockwise and anti-clockwise, and see how long he can stand it. sit on his lap and straddle him, wrap your legs around him and slowly rock back and forth. Any of these unexpected move will take you both by surprise.

[Asker]

I've done most of this, but thank you.

[normalice]

well, if you are trying to let him know that "you are the one" I can think of one way to solidify that forever.

Talk to your nemesis. By that, I mean the girl that you hate the absolute most in this world. Get her do an anal-only MFF threesome with your boyfriend. Then, after he cums in her ass, the moment he pulls it out enough such that it is fully visible immediately wrap your lips around it and suck it all the way down, in a frenzy of orgasmic vigor, until he cums again. Your nemesis will probably tease you about tasting her ass. This is perfect because it will let him know that even under the worst imaginable conditions, you absolutely must suck his c*ck. He will immediately declare you a "keeper" and, in fact, may never let you out of his sight again (I certainly wouldn't!).

Blindfolds and bondage are only interesting if you know what you're doing. It's actually a bit exhausting to be in bondage but have nothing going on that would cause me to want to get out. If you go this route, you must learn his "oh sh!t" buttons. Licking the tip of the penis very hard after he cums is usually such a button on most guys, especially if you slip a finger up his butt or something.

[Claireluvskaren]

You can and I recommend buying a strapon with a harness and pegging him. You will love it, buy a smaller strapon to start, lube it up and get him on his knees. Smack his ass as you thrust in and out of him.

[WovenEclipse]

I suppose role play - different ideas can give you lots of options if you both talk about what you like, you could dress up as doctors or teachers or something :3

[Asker]

It's weird, I'm super confident in the bedroom, but drama and acting has never been my strong point lol

[WovenEclipse]

I know what you mean xD I'm like that, but I find if I'm horny quite a lot I am capable of doing things I would usually deem embarassing- being horny takes away my shyness xD It means I can dirty talk a lot more and stuff- maybe if you get really horny before starting the roleplay you'll be more enthusiastic about it and act without being as shy :) Some soreplay before the roleplay or something ^_^

[Asker]

Haha, I totally know what you mean. Hmmm. Soreplay?

[WovenEclipse]

Haha yes! xD Exactly :D If you try to get into the zone and focus, not on how you may feel silly, but instead on how horny you must be making your partner, then I'm sure you will be able to do it :) Good luck ^_^

[Asker]

Thanks! I just might have to give it a try. Even if it ends up being a total dud, he's the type of guy I could laugh it off with. Xx

[Anonymous]

Yeh, go the strapon. I did my guy with one. It was so hot. It just made me feel so powerful, in charge. But he got off on it to. It was Mir fun than I expected

[JohnBelluci]

a fantasy that apparently a lot of chicks are into:

----> getting raped (NO JOKES)

Also

You could try doing all kinds of stuff to him while his eyes are covered with a bandage. (senses are improved when you're eyes are closed, and there is this excitment from not knowin what's gonna happen)

Also

whip cream ? ...

[pates]

There is an (android) app that we discovered that helps you and your partner "safely" discover each others' fantasies. If you check the "risque fantasies" box - yowza - there are some things I never would have thought of in there. It is called Fantasy Finder - here is the link: link

[Cryostatic]

That's an interesting concept.

[Asker]

That's really interesting, thanks!

[Anonymous]

Roleplay, wear handcuffs, and dominate him.

[Asker]

What kind of role play?

[Anonymous]

buy collars and handcuffs and a whip. and stuff like that. keep him guessing

[Asker]

Have you ever used that kinda stuff:

[Opinion Owner]

whip and collar yes. handcuffs no. can't find any good ones.

[Asker]

Can you tell me how it went?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah. he liked them both. he said it was pretty fun. I blindfolded him and all that jazz

[normalice]

you should be able to find handcuffs at any military surplus store.

[Opinion Owner]

used?

[normalice]

I doubt it. why, does it matter? just apply soap and water.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't like used stuff lol