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What side effects does masturbation for girls have?

I am talking about clit orgasm here.. because I'm a virgin. But would this affect my sex drive after marriage ? Is it better not to masturbate ? I mean..would it get harder for me to orgasm in time if I do it ? Also.. can you guys give me tips on having better clit orgasms while masturbating, I already do the normal fingering one and it feels awesome, my body shakes and I can barely keep my mouth shut , but I mean , would a vibrator do a better job ? thanks :)
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  • there are no bad side effects to masterbateing... there are good side effects such as it relieves stress its very relaxing and it feels great . this will not give you a low sex drive after marriage at all infact even when your married you will still masturbate . so lower sex drive NO .. it would make it higher if anything . in my opinion fingering is OK but it feels good just to rub the clit that's where most of the nerves are of course .. as for a vibrator on your clit ...YES YES OHH YES ! that's the best ever . I have to suggest getting the PULSE TROJAN VIBRATOR . it is wonderful ! its for your clit and is powerful .. I know for sure KMART has them that's where I got mine or even go online its like 35 dollars .. trust me its worth EVERY SINGLE CENT ! I have tried a lot of diff vibs. and this one is by far one of my faves for sure . as for you wondering if masterbateing would make it harder for you to orgasm later on the answer to that is no . you are learning what feels good to your self and you should get to know your self very well . ... you know what I mean .. it will help your sex life not hurt it .

  • There are no negative side effects from masturbation. It will improve your sex drive after marriage. It won't make you 'numb' or 'worn out' or whatever.

    Every girl should have a vibrator. And before you ask, the idea that vibrators cause nerve damage is a complete and utter myth (they've done scientific studies on it and everything). Stress, negative emotions, distractions - these are things that delay or prevent orgasm.

    This page: link has 105 pages of forum posts on masturbation tips for chicks. There's some super inventive stuff in there. Everyone has their own thing that works for them, but I recommend reading through it for ideas.

    You'll also find that over the years you'll change your preference when it comes to technique. It's like sex, there's lots of different positions you can have sex in, and the same is with masturbation. If you ever find that your favorite technique just isn't doing it for you anymore, just try something new.

  • Okay, I know all about this! Firstly, it won't affect your sex drive and you can masturbate as much as you want.

    However, while yes a clitoral vibrator will give you INTENSE orgasms, I mean really amazing, they can make it really hard for you to orgasm without that sensation, if used over a long period of time. Something I'm trying to train myself off right now - I want to orgasm without that and I had no idea I'd made that impossible for myself. I would say if you want to experience an orgasm that way, get a clit vibe, but try not to use it too often. Make sure you can still come from just your fingers, then you won't ruin your chances of climaxing without the vibrator being part of things.

    • Okay, I see my answer is not something others have experienced, but I have so be aware that it's a possibility. I was single a very long time so I got really used to the vibrator, so that might be something to do with it!

Most Helpful Guys

  • It will make it easier to achieve orgasm the more you know how your body will respond and what you like. Masturbation is completely fine.

    You can get a vibrator to change it up a bit, but it sounds like you're doing fine the way you are.

  • It seems you're always reaching the peak of your sexual drive.

    No, there's no side effects.

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  • There are no negative side effects to masterbating...but the positive effect is an an orgasm.It relieves stress and sexual tension.Also,it helps you to learn about your own body so that in the future,when you do have a partner,at least you will know what pleasures you and what doesn't.And no,it should not affect your sex drive after marriage.

  • Orgasms.

  • Yes get a vibrator, rabbit style is best imo.

  • There is no side effects. Learning things about your body and knowing what turns you on is a good thing. You can try anything you want as long as it feels good to you and is safe (like don't masturbate with silly things you find around, better buy stuff from a professional store).

    Fingers work pretty good, you can try shower as well. And if you are interested about stuff you can always talk about it with older girlfriends or read about it.

    Wouldn't trust online info that much but you can choose what sounds good to you and what doesn't.

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