Why do so many girls love watching rough/dominant p*rn where women are degraded?

[Anonymous]

I am shocked at how many of my friends who are girls love watching movies like Rocco movies where the guys make the girls gag, give them rough sex, anal, facials, dominate them, huge penises forced into anal, double penetration, female threesomes where the girls are rough with each other to help the guy dominate, etc. Is this a secret fantasy for most women? Do women who watch this want to be treated this way?

[Anonymous]

Women's hatred of p*rn has largely disappeared as feminism has died out. During the years of feminism ANY p*rn was considered evil and disrespectful of women. These days women seem to have begun to get over their rabid hatred of it and see it for what it is...entertainment with the added bonus of a libido boost and enhanced excitement later with their guy.

I think women have also begun to realize that some (not all) of the stuff common in p*rn is actually not "just for p*rn stars" and that it can be fun and exciting in real life. Anal, for example, is a lot more popular among women today than 10 - 20 years ago and a lot of women LOVE it. Most of the ones who don't have either not tried it with an experienced guy or just have some mental block about it. Many of the women I've been with, after some coaxing and preparation, have become lifelong anal addicts.

Things like choking are a bit extreme, although some women dig it. But again, watching it in p*rn and actually doing it can be very different things.

The most important thing is a trusted partner. P*rn does make a lot of acts look degrading, but whether or not something is degrading is only in the minds of those who are doing it. Acting out any fantasy with a loved and trusted partner doesn't have to be degrading.

[Anonymous]

Porn is primarily targeted at men. That's no surprise.

Keep in mind, however, that p*rn is not about reality...it's about fantasy. A lot of women get off on fantasies about being dominated...often to the extreme. Doesn't mean they necessarily want it in real life, but watching it get's their panties wet just like it gives guys wood.

I often hear from women that the biggest complaint they have about p*rn is not the domination, degradation or roughness but rather the fact that the male actors are selected based on their d***s and not their looks.

[Kadiboma]

I don't like any of that! It's way too much for me.

I like to see the guy being rough, handling the woman roughly and slapping her butt, pulling her hair etc. I like a dominant guy but all that stuff you mention. It's a real turn off for me!

[Asker]

So you like it rough, just not too rough? You only like it up to slapping her ass, pulling hair, dominating, etc but not facials, anal, DP, gagging?

[Kadiboma]

Exactly! :)

[Asker]

But you are OK with the guy picking the girl up in the air, holding her down, throwing her around for new positions, etc? That isn't too rough is it?

[Kadiboma]

No, that's hot! ;)

[Asker]

LOL OK so when does it cross the edge?

[Kadiboma]

When it looks like the woman is actually getting hurt or not enjoying what she's doing, or when it gets gross to watch - like gagging for instance. That does not look pleasant and is ugly to look at... and double penetration just makes the woman look a bit cheap... to me anyway, different strokes for different folks. lol

[Asker]

But what if she enjoys anal, DP, facials, etc? I know girls who ask for that stuff lol. So I guess they would consider that not being too rough, while you would.

[Kadiboma]

Yeah, I mean it's totally up to the individual of course. But I wouldn't want that, and watching it in p*rn does nothing for me. Just makes me recoil actually. lol

[Anonymous]

no what is degrading is when people say that women are weak because they like rough sex and like to be dominated. This is what James Dean said and I don't like him personally but it's a good quote.

[Asker]

I don't find it degrading at all personally. But there are a lot of females, like ones on this site, who say facials and anal and being treated like a sex object is degrading.

[Asker]

Who is james dean? p*rn guy?

[Opinion Owner]

yes james dean is a p*rn guy and Q Asker: I'm pretty sure girls who say that are not completely serious when they say it because then they say "well he would stop if I told him if I was in dire pain, can sex dolls do that? I don't think so lmao

[Opinion Owner]

You know, I don't think the producers of such a doll would make a lot of money if she says "stop, you're hurting me" lol

[Asker]

Women seriously like watching this stuff though, so on some level they love the idea of a man dominating and treating a girl really rough in bed

[Opinion Owner]

im talking about when you said they want them treating her like a sex object -___-

[Kadiboma]

It's James Deen. lol Some of his p*rn movies are a bit much, but the ones where it's just him and one girl, and no bondage or anything, he's just rough ENOUGH and it's really hot!

[Asker]

Oh OK that makes sense. So you like it being rough if it is not too rough and mean

[Opinion Owner]

My man likes to dominate and be dominated, and I'm quite inexperienced so I don't know which one I prefer but I like benign dominated for now lol because I am so inexperienced :P

[CuriousSteve]

I've often wondered this too.

On places like xhamster.com -surely the p*rn connoisseurs website of choice- they have a Female Choice section (I assume the videos have been chosen by women) and I'm always quite surprised at some of the content on there. NSFW: link

[Travesty]

Most women like dominant men. They might not wish to be in as extreme a situation as the ones you see in p*rn, but that doesn't mean it isn't a turn-on to watch. There are a lot of women who are totally straight and watch lesbian p*rn, too.

[hannibal214]

they secret want to have rough anal sex with lexington steele buring to the hilt but are afraid to be honest with themselves

[Vandal]

Excellent video about this - "Female Rape Fantasy Is Not What It Seems"

https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=vETzvWL4M0Y

[Anonymous]

It's just their fantasy.

[Anonymous]

I don't watch it but most p*rn is geared towards men like most things are in this world.

[Asker]

That is the conventional wisdom, but I know many girls who love p*rn that is more hardcore than most guys like!

[Anonymous]

I was watching p*rn once and saw another girl fisting a girl... I just shuddered in pain (>.>) I was like oh gosh... why? D:

[W1llem]

Thats what happens if you have sex with to many horses.

[Asker]

So many girls seem to love this though!

[Cottoncandydreams]

SAME!

[Asker]

Yeah, I wonder what kind of issues some of these girls must have to do stuff like that

[Opinion Owner]

I'm kind of just sitting here wondering what's gone on in the internet world while I was away :0

[Asker]

Lots and lots of girls watching and doing p*rn has apparently been going on. And the p*rn gets freakier as time goes on lol

[Opinion Owner]

I think everyone has their kink and kink limitation lol I just can't take fisting ^^

[Asker]

I wouldn't even want to do that to a girl. No idea why some girls like it lol

[Anonymous]

As much as I hate women, I can't watch it either.

Call me a hypocrite.

BTW yes the most common fantasy women have is rape.

Take that information any way you like