I may get some unpopular votes for being honest but not everyone believes that sex is a monogamous action between two people who love each other. There's a girl that I am absolutely head over heels for... But we've been best friends for about 15 years and I honestly don't know if she feels the same way about me. We would do absolutely anything for other for the other person and we have always been there for the each other. One of the greatest joys of my life is seeing her be happy... Unfortunately that means watching her be happy with someone else. The day may come where she feels that way about me as well, but until then I'm not going to put my life on hold. I've had friends with benefits, one night stands and plenty of casual girlfriends. But she's always going to be the one in my eyes.