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Guys: What's your opinion on strap-ons?

During a recent alcohol-fueled conversation with a male friend of mine, he let it slip that his ex-girlfriend had sex with him using a strap-on...and he loved it. My boyfriend requested that I come up with some new stuff to do in bed, and seeing as how he already gets extremely turned on by anal stimulation, I figured that this might be something that I could try with him. So, for the guys who have had it done and the girls who have done it...here's what I need to know. 1. What is the best way to "stretch" him beforehand so that it doesn't hurt excessively? And how much lube should I use? 2. What is the best position for us to be in? 3. Guys, what did you think of the experience? Girls, how did your guy react to it? Please answer the poll question below. Any help is greatly appreciated! Best answer will be selected! ")
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  • I really enjoy anal play, but have only been f***ed with a strapon once or twice. The best position I found for taking it was doggy style. We used some awful, awful, rubber or pvc dildo in the strapon, which was incredibly uncomfortable due to it's inflexibility... I'd recommend silicone dongs for this sort of thing, they are soft and bend with the body. After one of those, there is no going back.

    Obviously, use a material-compatible lube. Of the non-silicone lubes that I've tried I found vaseline to be the best, second only to bad-dragon cumlube. It's a bit obscure, but it's the best I've ever used.

    You'll want to warm up with a finger (or tongue if you are adventurous) before you start. but your best indicator of how to start is to experiment with yourself. That's recommendation that all guys and girls need to heed before anal play, because a bad experience will ruin all future prospects of anal play.

    In terms of the actual strapon experience, It was with a FWB, so there wasn't a huge emotional attraction and it was a bit uncomfortable. I guess I was nervous for some reason, because the dong itself was a lot smaller than other things that I've taken with my ex with whom I shared a much stronger connection. So an emotional connection between the two of you is also a great help.

    And one last thing, take it slow. If he wants it faster he can ask you for it.

  • My wife F--ks me with a strap-on, regularly, and I LOVE it.

    It doesn't hurt, because she uses a rude-boy first, and she always incorporates a story... I get a good f--king with role-play. I love it when she takes control. You have no idea how much come there is when she does this, it's crazy.

    This is why I will never leave her, because she's the BEST!

    • a rude-boy?

    • www.rude-boy.com Use this on your guy with plenty of lube, and he will be begging you for me.

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  • I have done it with my husband, he likes prostate play too. We usale have me spoon him, but he will have a smaller vibe or plug in for a while first and we will have sex or I will blow him before I use the strapon. As with any ansl too much lube is almost enough. How did he react, well the first time we did the whole strapon not just some toys he had multiple orgasms. So yeh he loved it. Oh big tip get one that vibrates. Another thing to make it easer to use is get a long one, you don't have to use all of it, but you can 😉. We use one about 8" long. It's nice to see him take one the same length that I have to take. But you don't want too thick. Good luck

  • As a woman who has had anal sex (including some pretty horrible anal sex), I would recommend to insert it by hand before strapping it on. It's a lot easier to control the power behind your movements with your hand. The more lube, the better. Especially as you are trying to stimulate his prostate, not create an excess of friction that you can't feel. Also, if you really want to get into this, I'd suggest doing a lot of squats and things to get into shape. Guys really use a lot of muscle-power to bury that bone from behind! Spooning would probably be a more comfortable first time, fit. That's just from my own experiences.

  • I am not a dude but I have no interest on using my strap on with a boyfriend it doesn't appeal to me in any way

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  • never done it and probably never going to try. not at all interested in anal play and certainly not interested in getting f*cked.

    just my opinion though

  • C: never experienced it, not too interested to be honest.

  • Haven't done it, but not very interested...

  • why bother with a strap-on? just bring a guy over to give it to your boyfriend up the ol' back-door

  • No ass play for me or my wife. Off limits! Lol

  • The more lube the better do it with him on his back and don't use to large of a strap on especially at first

  • I really love them. They are so erotic.

  • im not a guy ha ha but I think its really hot when us girls us them on each other

  • I didn't care for it - Once was enough for me

  • Use a finger or something. That's how some guys get into it. Their girlfriend slips it in while giving them a bj.

    You should use lots of lube. There is anal lube out there that is thicker than normal lube so that it lasts longer. Maybe try some of that.

    I've never done it, but I am not opposed to it.

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