Why do guys like to be on top?

Why do guys like to be on top during sex? Does it trun them on to feel in control or is it to last longer? Or do they feel like it's more intimate? And they like to be held? It's just every guy I've been with always wants to be on top and I'm just wondering what it is that guys like to be on top? Does every guy like missionary?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A number of reasons:

    - During sex, usually the guy is doing most of the physical work, and it's easier to do that for the guy if he's on top.

    - Being on top is the dominant position, and most couples prefer the male-dominant dynamic.

    - Many girls are self-conscious about being on top (for no good reason!), either because of body image issues or because they think they don't know what they're doing. They prefer to be on the bottom and have the guy taking control.

    - Any face-to-face position is more intimate, because you can see your partner's face/eyes.

    - Due to the physics and genital angles involved, guys move their hips front-to-back, which takes less energy, and thus can be sustained for a longer period of time, than girls, who have to move up-and-down, and therefore have to move most of their body mass. Girls who are on top tend to wear out their legs quickly, and the bigger the girl, the faster she'll get tired as a rule.

    • You know, it's still possible for s man to thrust from the bottom possition.

    • Obviously, but that doesn't invalidate the reasons I gave. I said it was *easier* to do while on top.

  • I like to change it up between being on top and having her on top and usually do both in the same session. My girlfriend has a much easier time having an orgasm when she's on top. As far as lasting longer, it is actually the opposite. I can last longer with her on top.

Most Helpful Girl

  • My guy says likes being on top because he likes to be able to kiss me and he says it makes him feel bonded to me. Also, it's tends to be the easiest and most comfortable position for both partners, many times. You can do a lot of different variations of missionary to change the angle of penetration, the tightness, the speed, the depth, as well as the motion from in and out to grinding circles. Both partners have a wide range of control of their motions. Plus, the clit can get a lot of pressure. I'm a big fan of missionary and don't know why it's gotten such a bad name in our p*rn-star obsessed culture. (I like other positions too, of course).

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  • It's the most normal position for human intercourse.

    Also the most intimate position, you can kiss, rub, feel, lick, look, smell and much more with each other than any other position.

  • All of the above. I haven't met a position I didn't like, though.

  • I prefer girl on top.

  • All of he above.

  • I like to have control when we make love. I like the missionary position and, some others.

  • i prefer cowgirl

  • It has to do with biology. Males are naturally designed to thrust so being on top allows for us to do that. Being on the bottom we can'tdo that. Women get off on griding hence being on top.

  • It is for dominance, though I find it more sexier when a girl's on top of me.

  • Guys like to take charge duh. It also feels better too

  • I think everyone wants the guy on top.

  • the laws of physics, it has to go down into her

    I prefer her on top though, I last longer

  • It's a great position to control the depth and tempo of the thrusting. My balls tend to tighten up faster in the missionary on top position which sometimes means it's harder to last longer but also tends to mean the explosion is especially intense. As a result it's nice to have sex in other positions and then flip her over and pound it home in missionary.

    Girl on top is nice though especially if she's got a great pair of breasts bouncing around in your face! :P

  • I personally love missionary because I can be in control, look at her expressions and determine what she likes based off of that and it's nice to be able to kiss her. Unless she is a skank or a one-nighter because then I'd just bang her doggy and send her home.