Girls who like rough sex: just how rough do you like it? Do you like pain, tears, complete submission?

[Anonymous]

I have read a lot of posts about how girls on this site love rough sex, being dominated, and that they like being hurt and pain. How rough do you like it? What specific things do you want done? How many of your boyfriends do this? Do you tell your men to get rough? How do they react? How many of you like anal, or being forced to gag during oral, or being completely dominated in positions like rough doggy and missionary with legs over shoulders, etc? Are there really this many girls who like rough sex, or is just the people posting on this site?

[143nat143]

rough to me... I have asked many questions about this on this site. My husband is not rough, or dominating and I am very submissive. There is like an itch I get, a need to feel pain. I have no idea how to describe it other than that. It is a pain I cannot give my self and it is not just sexual. choking, holding me down so I can't move, pinching me. Gagging me with his **** so that mascara is running down my face pushing on my head, pulling my hair. Anal, the harder the better. I like him to stretch out my cheeks with his fingers. I want to be told I am a good girl etc... I want him to tell me to do the dishes or vacuum. It isn't just sexual I want to please him in every way I can. I make him dinner and serve him and our children every night.

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However I don't think most women are this way. I have been married for 16 years and it has taken a lot for me to understand what I want and then be able to discuss it with my husband. I still think he feels ashamed after a good spanking. The other night we had pretty rough sex, rougher than ever before. He pinned me to the point I couldn't move or breathe and I had never been so turned on. NEVER. But afterward he was not himself and I think he felt really bad for doing that to me or maybe he found he enjoyed it to much and that was odd for him. IDK... Anyway, hope this helps your question a little. And I am just a normal person like everyone else. I am a teacher and I live a normal submissive life. I don't walk around in a collar and chain or anything. We don't have any whips or secret toy room. Although whips might be fun!

[Asker]

You sound as if you are an awesome wife. So how did you tell your husband that you wanted it this rough? You like gagging on d*** until your mascara smears and hard anal? Wow! What do you think causes this? Do you only like your husband to do this to you, or did you like past boyfriends doing this? This is fascinating!

[143nat143]

I am not sure if it is just my husband I like or if I could be this way with other men. I met my husband before I knew this part of myself. I guess gradually over time I have seen different p0rn that really turned me on and I wanted to try it. Or read books that I enjoyed the BDSM aspect of it. (no... not 50 shades of grey, that book was horrible. I think it started with pushing my limits on sucking c0ck making it deeper and deeper and rough. I would put his had on my head and push and kinda

[143nat143]

showing him I really wanted it and I could handle it. Anal, he was always the one fascinated with that so finally I gave in and discovered I liked being able to give him that much pleasure.

[Asker]

Wow. So do you think p*rn got you excited about this idea, or you always secretly wanted to be dominated and roughed up? So you were the one who kept pushing the idea of sucking deeper and gagging? I admit I always start thrusting and making girls gag and I don't know where it comes from. Maybe watching p*rn? But it is a huge turn on for me where the girl can't take my d*** but I keep pushing it in. Is that how it is for you? And wow! Anal with a girl who wants it would be so hot!

[vini420]

So why don't you try escort for rough sex

[lollipopsforyou]

I love rough sex but not like being hurt and pain and stuff, but yes, a little submission and being dominated is hot, not humiliated though. In my case, I like hard and fast sex, hair pulling, like the guy restraining my hands and some positions that you mentioned in your question are my favorite, I also love dirty talking and having my hands tied and having to ask for more.

I don't like extreme stuff, so most of my boyfriends (since I discovered I like it that way) are pretty much into me being dominated by them and yes, I have told them, some before having sex with them, like I always ask what they like and stuff and tell them what I like (I recommend it) and some like during sex I feel like telling them to f*** me harder and that I like it rough and stuff like that and they actually do, and really feel they have enjoyed it as much as I did.

You know, in real life I'm a very dominant person, so they usually tell me they're surprised by me like to being dominated during sex (I actually think it makes sense haha)

Also, I had this guy I dated briefly being completely turned off by the idea of f***ing me hard, but I didn't care, his loss haha.

About your last question, I don't know like in general but majority of my friends don't like rough sex that much, or at least are not that open about talking about it.

How would you react at a girl telling you to f*** her hard or that she likes it rough and stuff?

[juneangel6390]

I really honestly do LOVE everything you mentioned! I love being spanked and slapped around too. I love when my man just takes charge and dominates me! He is a little shy about it. but I know he likes it, and I can get it to loosen up. But yeah, I love everything you mentioned about being rough and dominated and much more!

[Asker]

Have you always liked that? Or is it more recently?

[juneangel6390]

ever since I first had sex. I like it soft and easy too. but I have always gotten off faster when its any bit rough

[autumn555]

rough is awesome, I'm a very submissive person in every way..anal is okay sometimes but I punched my ex in the mouth for just shoving it in..personal reasons...forced to gag, good..legs over shoulders, good. just rough everything but you can still be dominated without being rough...i like to be cut on my legs and tummy during sex, my boyfriend and I were good friends before we got together and we made rules and boundaries on what we like and do not like, he reacted okay to it...he doesn't really like cutting me but he does it to get me off. He loves to choke me out, spank, pull hair, slap, hold down etc ect ect

[Asker]

Wow. No idea so many girls liked to gag!

[KJT6989]

I like being a submissive I want to please my man in every way he likes control do I give to him! He tells me to do something and I say yes sir and do it, he calls me his slave and I call him master! When we didn't live together I would text him and ask him what he wanted me to wear that day and he would tell me what to wear and how to wear my hair! I like it and he doesn't force me to do anything I don't want to do, he respects me and he loves! We weren't always like this we just liked rough sex and slowly started adding Dom/sub into the relationship! I get off on him telling me what to do!

[Asker]

So you like him even telling you how to dress?

[KJT6989]

He doesn't know but when we were living apart yes! Because it made him feel like he was still in control!

[KJT6989]

*now

[Asker]

So did that turn you on? Him telling you how to dress?

[KJT6989]

Yes it did!

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

I love rough sex, not so much to the point that tears are rolling down my face. As for gagging, it's physically impossible for me. But I do like being dominated in the missionary position with my legs over his shoulders, it's my favourite.

[Asker]

You can't gag? I find that hard to believe!

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

It's true, I've never gagged in my whole life

[143nat143]

Why can't you gag?

[Asker]

I could change that. I promise. A lot of girth and good length plus thrusting and you would gag. No girl has ever been able to not gag on mine.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

I don't know why I can't, even when I'm trying to eat something disgusting I'll feel dock but no gagging.

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

*sick

[Asker]

Have you had a guy thrust while you are giving him head? One with some girth?

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Yeah, I couldn't breath but other than that I felt pretty normal

[toricakes]

The thought of being a mans slave is really hot

[Asker]

Really? So are you down with spanking, facials, anal, gagging etc

[toricakes]

Yes, and choking and being tied up

[Anonymous]

complete submission

[Anonymous]

I actually dominate all the time during sex, so it's rough, but femdom, not maledom.

[Anonymous]

The rougher the better, for me. But then again, my therapist says I use sex to self-harm. I only really get wet if a guy hurts me. I like anal and gagging because it’s painful and degrading. I hate it when guys go down on me because physical pleasure feels wrong and uncomfortable lol.

Sooner or later I admit this to all partners I’ve had and they agree to do it to please me, but this far it’s gone one of two ways: a) he feels bad and our sex life dies, or b) he loses all respect for me and starts treating me like shit 24/7 and we break up. So now I mostly just do hook-ups. The guys I hook up with are usually excited to rough me up, because they weren’t trying to respect me to start with and are happy to act out stuff they’ve seen in porn.

[Anonymous]

im fine with just about anything with rough sex with me i like to be in a bit of pain altho i dont like the whole anal thing but sometimes depending who i do end up liking it like that but haha with sex as long as its rough u can do it on me

[Anonymous]

A little slapping no name calling.

[Asker]

Slapping on the face or ass?

[Opinion Owner]

ass