I think it depends on the person. Losing my viriginity is a big deal to me, in that I want to have sex already.
But do I expect fireworks and magical unicorns to dance around the bed as the sun sets? No, not really. Many women do, but I don't view my sexuality in a conservative or romantic sense when it comes to my virginity. I want it to be comfortable, with someone I trust and with whom I am comfortable. (Not necessarily someone I love in a romantic sense.) And I want my mind to be at ease, as much as possible. That's really all I want. I expect it to hurt, although some girls I know say their first time didn't hurt much. I think it could go either way, depending on my partner. Either super awkward and just a random kind of moment. Or (ideally) so comfortable, we talk through it, maybe laugh a little at the awkwardness, he cums, and then we cuddle and talk about what just happened. And then we try it again. That's my ideal scenario, but if it doesn't go down that way, that's fine.
The virginity loss stories I've heard are a mixed bag. Few women had the experience they wanted, and they tell me to "wait it out". I'm like, why should I wait? You had an eh experience your first time, but you moved on and now you're having great sex. Why can't the same happen for me, skank? lol
I'm 23. I feel like I need to not be a virgin anymore. But I'm insecure with my body because I'm a bit fat. But I'm getting more comfortable with not being perfect, so that's becoming less of a concern. (slowly, its a process) However, I have no one to have sex with. And who knows when I'll be with someone. I'm going onto being a 30 year old virgin. That's kind of depressing. Meh.2 1 0 0It's really nothing special, I don't feel bonded to the guy, I haven't changed. The whole first time thing is made out to be such a big fairy tale moment, but when it really happens you'll feel nothing special
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2 1for guys it is, girls not so much
0 1 0 0Well it's more intimate
0 0 0 0you will feel bonded to the person most likely. it's much more intimate than kissing.
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