Guys, do you like knowing how a girl masturbates?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked me if I masturbate. I said yes, but now he wants to know how I do it and he wants me to show him. I have no problem doing that, it´s just that I masturbate in weird ways and I´m afraid he´s going to be freaked out if I tell him/show him. Example of things I do: I rub myself against a teddy bear because it´s soft and it stimulates my entire vagina When I do it with my fingers, when I´m about to cum, I open my legs really wide and sort of push myself up (it looks a bit like the exorcist lol, but nicer I hope) I touch my as***e because it makes me come faster. So, I´m afraid he´s going to think I´m crazy. I lost my virginity to him and he thinks of me as a sweet, cute girl...

[Anonymous]

I'm sure your boyfriend will not be freaked out if you tell him/show him how you masturbate. First off, he should think how lucky he is just to have a girlfriend that masturbates because that means he has a girlfriend that loves to be satisfied sexually. I bet you're one very relaxed girl that doesn't stress out over every little thing. I think he's going to absolutely love watching you and learning how you like to be brought to climax. Make sure to tell him afterward what things you did to yourself that felt best to you so that he can learn to imitate it because if he's going to be a good sexual partner for you he needs to know the very best ways to get you the very best and most exciting orgasms, be it by having sex, giving you oral or using his hand or a combination of two of those or all three. He'll probably think of you as an even cuter girl. Just wait and see for yourself. I love the way you "open your legs real wide and sort of push yourself up, but nicer I hope." lol. My girlfriend has her own way of masturbating that I like but it's not as cute as you do it. I know she does it quite often before she goes to bed at night because she's told me it relaxes her and puts her to sleep.

[Bloogoo]

What a thoroughly happy teddy bear you must have!

Wonderful revelation. I'm quite sure your Boyfriend will be very interested. Any lover would be happy to know such things.

I must say... in my vast experience I have found that the sweet and quiet ones are so often the most interesting... under the surface.

[BatDoc]

He's probably looking for pointers. And who better to ask for pointers in pleasing you than you. Show him exactly what you do. And I'm sure he'll have questions about it. Just answer his questions honestly like you explained it to us here.

[KiwiLad]

Uh.. Just show him exactly that.

Damn.. Just do what you normally do and he'll love it.

Promise

[HandsomeRaj]

Mature people know that there's always something more than that meets the eye :)

Your having different ways of pleasuring yourself doesn't undo your being a sweet girl - does someone expect you or anyone to be outside the way you are behind closed doors? that's absurd :D

Playing it safe in your situation, show him the regular way of masturbation and as time moves on and he becomes accustomed to it while also opening up to you himself, you can go on and show him more based on what he can handle :D ;)

[sweetone]

Best answer so far.

[HandsomeRaj]

Thank you 'sweetone' that's sweet of you :) Honestly, my woman going that way in masturbation will make me want her more :D

[anupamagrawal]

Everyone has different ways of self pleasing which may feels right in private but weird if done in front of others.

Take an example - you can have a great f*** session but would it be easy for you to videotape and see it even with the sex partner you are doing things in video. Not at all.

So, the question is whether you want to show him or not. Its your private things so you have a right to keep it private but if you wants to show him but making it less weird. Then just masturbate in front of him in usual and less weird style. After some time and session you both would get comfortable and open to things then you can add all the weird stuff you haven't even tried yet without feeling uncomfortable.

BTW, I found nothing weird in the way you masturbate. Its pretty common. I have seen chick putting big bananas and cucumber in their private parts and believe me watching a girl playing it shamelessly makes me harder than anything else.

[summiter]

Please do it in front of him. He will learn what turns you on. Guys are always looking for pointers. A former girlfriend and I use to masturbate in front of each other...it was hot. Ask him to masturbate in front of you. That way you can see how he likes it also.

[billshard43]

Just tell him you can't show him because you forgot how.

[echoaj]

I wouldn't worry about it. Its not like he is going to like you any less. And plus I am sure he has masturbated in weird ways too.

[johnvanjohn]

you kidding? I encourage her to do it in front of me.

[Anonymous]

It will probably turn him on unless you tell him you're thinking of some other dude when you masturbate.

[Anonymous]

I really like knowing how my girl masturbates because now I know where and how she likes to be touched. By knowing that, I can give her better oral, fingering, and everything else because I know what drives her over the edge. That's great for her because she will be getting more orgasms, and I would be enjoying the whole sexuality between us more.

Your guy wants to know the same thing. Do it. He won't be weirded out.

[Anonymous]

If he's anything like me (and most guys) he will just be turned on like crazy!